To live happily ever after....

According to the Chinese tradition, a man or a woman who is unmarried is considered a child even if s/he grows old. It is quite true because s/he does not know and understand what is the responsibility of a parent and will be less matured than a married man/woman

A guy will have no worries before marriage but after marriage, their worries will start and they become matured in their thinking's.While the woman worries about finding the right husband before marriage. This is an irony of life.

If you want to make your marriage like a fairy tale and live happily ever after, you will have to do certain things to turn her into a beautiful princess.

Make a spell and cast on her and turn her into a Stepford wife. Give her a big diamond as a surprise if you are loaded . If not ,go to the bazaar to buy her a cheap imitation Russian diamond.

So your ultra modern wife thinks this submissive thing is outdated and wants equality . If you want her to listen to you ,it is not difficult.

Love her to the hilt and she will surrender all to you.Woman are like that , they need to be conquered. You will become her boss or King and she will be like the sweet kitten .

After you have stolen her heart for safe keeping , you must take very good care of it. You need to respect her and always asked for her opinions first to make her feel like a V V I P.

If her views or plans are wiser than yours, you must shower her with lots of affections and praised her sky high.
Then she will feel more appreciated , understood, valued and smarter than you.

Then she will love you more and more. You must be wise enough and willing to seek Her Majesty's counsel .

Be more observant of your surroundings or your wife's appearances. Use your eyes to the fullest.Have a photographic memory before and after you left for work and when you come back from work.

Detect any new changes in your home or in her. You must be like Sherlock Holmes ,use a magnifying glass to detect the clues and evidence in your home.

If you see any changes in her or the house give your positive feed backs. Turn on your positive mind even if you don't like what you see.It is not what you like or don't like but what she likes and you pander to her.You must be of the same mind as hers.

Little things mean a lot to your wife. You showed that you still have much interest in her and your acknowledgment is very important to her mental health.

She feeds on those great comments which will make her day. You should realize that it will score a lot of Brownie points with her and at night , she will repay you back with interest.

If she cooked your favourite dish or tried something new , don't take her for granted, thank her and give biggie smiles. Thanks may not be enough ,if you don't smile and show all your crooked teeth.

If she bought a new dress, new perfume or new hairstyle and looks good or smells good,compliment her .She did it all for you and you should learn to appreciate her more.

Don't gripe about the cost to her or show you Ebeneezer face.Make sure she got available funds in her credit cards.Bite your tongue and howl in pain when she is only out of your sights and mind.

No matter how small an item may be to you, it may be very important to your wife that you notice and validate what she has done.

Don't underestimate the importance of those little ,little words of encouragements and praises.It means a lot to her.She will love you more for it.Don't just focus on yourself or your job. Leave your job in the office and concentrate on her when you are at home.

Just open your mouth a little and oil that tongue of yours .Don't forget to mention those golden three little words here and then and see with your eyes and it wont cost you a dime but the results is well worth the small efforts you put into those little words.

Don't just know how to eat and drink only.Your mother did not teach you how to say 'Thank you.'Surprise her with small presents or things which she like's ,to show your appreciations of what she has done for you.This shows that you really care and love her from head to toe.

A beautiful woman if wrongly treated in a marriage can look old and sad while a normal Jane can look like a princess beaming with joy and inner beauty if she is well treated .

If you can do all that , you will live happily ever after and if you failed, you will be turned into a toad.