Divorce is a long, bumpy, dark and lonely road

Think very carefully before you leap.If it is a case of terminal cancer and there is no cure, then you would need to amputate and remove the cancer.

Those who contemplate this road need to think very long and hard .They must try all their very best to salvage and repair their ship from sinking.

If all your best efforts failed ,you will not feel remorseful or have any regrets because it was not entirely your fault.You did your very best but it was still not enough .


You should then take the bull by the horns and do the best you can in that situation.You will be surviving on one single salary and you will find that you will be like one salary short.You will have no one to fall back on except your own parents if they are still available and willing to help.

Friends will avoid you cause your girfriends would be scared that you might lure their husbands away since you have become available again.

If after a period of time,when both your angers have subsided and you both realized that you want to give your broken marriage another shot, you may reconcile for the good of your children.

If you have learned your lessons and mistakes and be prepared to give and take, your chances of a united family becomes greater.However, if your reasons in getting back is because of the children, it will not last.You will find that life is so hollow.

Do not expect him to help you out financially if you choose to leave of your own accord. Even if you compel him through the courts, paying your maintenance is another matter.You may win the case in court but enforcing the judgment could be a problem .

Marriage is about compromise, sacrifice and love. If it is fated, then you need to embrace it and learn to accept it and move on.

After staying together for umpteen years and you suddenly wake up to find that you don't love that stranger who sleeps besides you every night any more .

Or that you just cannot tolerate him and the mere sight of him can make you puke.After considering all the factors , you decided that it is best that you each go different ways .If both mutually agreed and met each other's terms , then the parting could be cordial and an amicable separations.

Most of the time , however ,it could just be one partner wanting out and the other not agreeing and they don't see eye to eye over all issues.This could drag on and it can cause the children to suffer because of their parents infighting.

According to the divorce laws, they need to wait for 2 years before they can institute a divorce if they mutually agreed upon.If they don't agree to a mutual divorce, after 5 years, one can get a divorce even without the other party's consent.

You can get a quick divorce on grounds of infidelity ,if you can provide the proof.There is another way, no need to waste money on lawyers and you also will get some cash from Perkim ,but it is a way of no return. You can embrace Islam in this country and your divorce becomes absolute .

At the moment, once you enter that world, you burnt your bridges and there is no way back except to live outside of this country.

The fight is usually over properties, assets and custody rights of children .They should sit down together or if they cannot settle those issues, to get a friend or mediator to help out.
One must give and take to reach a compromise.

In our parent's time, divorce is out of question .Once married will be married for life..The women even though if she is treated very badly or abused will stay on ,for she will lose everything if she left.

In the present era , the women are working and able to look after themselves economically and they do not take any crap from their partners.

It is over if they cannot get what they want or that their partners do not satisfy them enough .Parting is such sweet sorrow. If there is no love, what's the point of staying in a loveless marriage.If the parents fight everyday and there is no reconciliation ,then divorce seems to be the best options.

They will share in the custody of the children and split all their assets according to what has been agreed upon.There is no need to cry .It is all over .The children will have two parents and two homes to live and spend their life.

Children of divorced family becomes more matured at an early age.It is idealistic that children grow up in a loving environment where they can get the love from both parents.

In some countries , the divorce laws are slanted towards the women and she gets the kids and the house and 50% of his assets.Some women are serial divorcees and make their riches through this process.