To sterilize or not ?

Will You Go For Sterilization?

There is a growing trend in young and unmarried women
to go for elective sterilization.They have decided indefinitely not to have children.

Whether it is wise or not is subject to different opinions.
It is usually permanent for a reversible is possible but chances of a success is slim.

Those who elect for sterilizations are usually married women who do not want to have any more babies and are above 30 years old.

Children are a blessings from God. For those religious, it is out of question.It has been observed that though they think they could not afford to raise more children , yet those children were taken care off and became adults.They maybe poorer but they live a normal life.

In the present context , it is very costly to raise a child and many modern parents bulk at the thought of having more children. Their standards of living would go down to the basement if they have one too many .

Both men and women can be sterilized if they chose not to have any children. It is more easier, less risky and the operation is cheaper for the men to go for a vasectomy than for the women to go for tubal litigation's.

In the men , part of the vasa deferentia is cut and sealed.It will not affect the production of male sex hormones (mainly testosterone) nor their secretion into the bloodstream.

Therefore sexual desire (libido) and the ability to have an erection and an orgasm with an ejaculation are not affected.
Similarly, in females, hormone production, libido, and the menstrual cycle are not affected by a tubal ligation.

Would a women go through life without experiencing childbirth or being a natural mother? Will she be fulfilled as a women?

She could be missing something in life which she was created for. There are those who are barren and craved for children while those who are perfectly normal chose not to have any children .

Everyone of us have a choice but some are very unfortunate that they don't have this luxury of a choice and the choice you make will affect your whole life.You could be right or you could be wrong and regret it later in life.

Once you have decided to have an operation, it will be forever and you need to give it a deeper thought that you are very certain you do not want any children.

It is still possible to have babies after sterilization. You can go for ‘in vitro fertilisation(IVF treatment). It will be very expensive and only work in a minority of cases.

Life is very uncertain . No one knows what will happen in the future. There are no certainties in life. Some children may not grow to the ripe old age and it is the real truth. Death and sickness are a part of our life.

The decision maybe yours to make but it will have serious repercussions to the men involved in your life.



credit and thanks to

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasectomy

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vas_deferens

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=482771&in_page_id=1879

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/sterilisation_women.htm

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