The beginning of the end of a relationship

If you are meant to be together, nothing will break you apart.The ties that binds you together will never break.

What is yours will be yours . What is not yours will be others.If you let it go and it comes back to you , it is yours. If it did not come back , then it is others


A storm does not appear out of the blue.It will build up slowly with ominous black clouds and increased velocity in the winds. The winds may blow it away or it could formed a perfect storm.

In any relationships, there will be dark clouds and thunderstorms.A fisherman will know when to put out to sea or stay at home.Knowing how to read the weather is a skill the fisherman must acquire or his life would be in great danger.

Similarly , in a relationship there will be minor and major storms which can break or strengthened that relationship.Like the fisherman , you must be able to read the weather reports and take the appropriate actions to prevent the loss of your boat or lives.

When everything is well, your relationship will run smoothly , fluid and frictionless like a well oiled machine.

When you have love, everything will be fine.For love covers a multitude of sins.When love flew out the window , you begin to see the many faults of your partner and everything he does will be unacceptable and unforgivable.

This 'love quotient' is a strange portion and if you have it , you will be O. K .If you lose it then you can say goodbye my love!

If you start to fight over little things , it is a signal that your relationship is starting to go down hill. If you can slow the descent with some good braking, you will live to survive.

If your brakes failed , it will sped downhill and smashed against some walls or drop down into the ravine.Your small fights will lead to bigger fights and it will tear apart your relationships.

If you start to think of others more than your partner, it is another sign that you don't love or like her anymore or like her less and less.If left unchecked, you can veer off the road ,going your separate ways.

Sex is another area where you can know if he is still interested in you .Sex is like a barometer of your love unless he has some physical or psychological problems and unable to perform.If s/he appears cold and disinterested , it can mean , there is something wrong or a pothole in your relationship highway.

Lastly , one of them may speak it out and want to move out .It signals a great dissatisfaction in the relationship and one of them wants to end it .S/he has no guts to pull out and need a confirmation or agreement from the other.

Life is never easy and full of challenges. Don't ignore those warning signs. Repair or replace quickly whatever is broken down and you will have a relationship that will last forever

A stitch in time saves nine…



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