TO LOVE OR TO BE LOVED..?

We all want to be loved but life is full of paradox's. We end up marrying someone we loved more than he loved us over the one that loved us more but which we loved less.

Why is it like that? It is due to our self centreness. We looked for what our heart desires. The person whom we marry personifies all our dreams and fantasies.

Many will choose the one they loved more than the one who loved them more.It is a human trait. Others may loved us more but if we don't loved them , our hearts will never be contented.

There will be emptiness and yearnings for the one you loved.
That is why ,sometimes women marry rogue husbands. They are initially attracted to their bad guy image while the good guys  are too wimpy for their taste.

Who do u prefer as your mate? The one you loved more or the one who loved you more ?

If it is after your own heart, then you would choose the one you loved more even though he may loved you less than you loved him. If you loved him more, you would do everything for him even if he does not respond in kind or in the same measure you gave him. I suppose that is human nature.Women are born care givers.

You would be satisfied to win his love ,it does not matter if you don't get back the same.You would hope that later in the future ,he would respond and return you back with interests.So u become the stoker, stoking his fire and making it burn like those wild bush fires.

If the man loves you more , and you love him less, then it has no meaning .You may get more advantage with this man but your heart will not  receive the satisfaction.

Most gals would prefer the man they love more than he loves you, even if they have to pay a bigger price.
Agree or not?

Posted by Laura