Do you criticize in the right way ?

It is easy to criticize others for any fools can do that . You do not need a degree to criticize others. Your criticisms may build up or tear down a person. Learning how to criticize is an art.

There are two types of criticisms, constructive and negative.Constructive criticism is offering another valid alternative way in a friendly and polite manner whereas negative criticism is more confrontational and the receiver can be put into a defensive position or a flame war could start .

Negative criticisms is pulling another person down, destroying him or belittling him.

In constructive criticisms we are not criticizing the person personally but only on his work or methods.Many women can take it personally when criticized. You have to be careful if you want to criticize your mate or the female gender.

Some people are quite sensitive to criticisms and even if you offer constructive criticisms, they will still treat you like an enemy and remember you for it.

If the criticism is given in a constructive way ,then it is easier to accept.We should strive to only offer constructive criticisms and not criticize just for the sake of criticizing.

How you word it is very important. Some people like to be blunt ,while others prefer to be more diplomatic.It depends on your level of friendship with each other.

Any fool can be a critic because many people know how to eat but not many know how to cook.It is ridiculous to criticize the work of others when he does not distinguish himself by his own performance.It is easy to criticize a person but difficult to appreciate him.

We should adopt an open attitude to criticisms.In this way ,we may achieve greater personal development and help uncover any blind spots.A second opinion is always good.

Being criticized is unavoidable.Whether you are good or bad, you will received criticisms because people have too high an expectations. You will always be judged fairly or unfairly.

Live with it,take what is good and spit out the bad.