The Mistress

No sane and rational woman would want to be his mistress if she can be his wife.Most woman would abhor the idea of being his mistress or go after a married man unless she has some hidden agenda.

Though they do not like venturing there, sometimes circumstances are beyond their controls. The men sweet talked them into it and they fell into their trap.She is a sucker for his empty promises which will never come to pass.Women are a gullible lot

Love can be blind and they become irrational and lose their sense of judgment. Thus begin a life of deceit, lies and secret rendezvous.

Initially, it maybe quite exciting but after sometime, the cat and mouse game can wear on your patience and you will get tired of it. You cannot be out in the open and forever you will have to hide your liaison.If you are discovered there will be disasterous consequences and it could either make or break for you.

Some woman do not have a choice or Hobson's choice ,as either they were tricked by the man or they allowed themselves to be maneuvered into this position.

Girls are now more highly educated and are working and fending for themselves.Many are working but many cannot achieve their aspirations of a better life just by their salaries alone.

They either acquired the good taste of life or see others of their kind who flaunt their wealth in their face.Their friends may also encouraged them to do the same.

They maybe hesitant at first due to ethical and moral considerations but economic and the good life drowned out their resistance and so join the crowd.

They want a better life, be able to afford nice beautiful and expensive clothes and accessories,be driven in those sleek sport cars or luxury cars,holidays in exotic places, dine in high class establishments and go partying in those high establishments.

With the guy shortage and her biological clock ticking furiously , the temptation to become a mistress can even becomes greater. She would have to take the chances and believed that she will be able to manipulate him to leave his wife.

Sadly, she is only delusional, for the men do not always leave the wife for the mistress.What they get is only empty promises and words but no actions.

Young and modern women of today have affairs with middle age married men who appears confident, suave and full of experiences. When love hits them , they just fall down into the whirlpool of love and be swept away, whatever resistance they offered will be futile.

The life of a mistress is short and one of misery as you will only enjoy a part of him whenever he is available. Like a dog feeding on crumbs thrown from the dinner table.

Most of the time , you will be lonely and pining for him ,like a statue waiting by the sea shore.

It can never be satisfying and your life will be ruined.Your life, mental health and career will be affected and not only yours, but you will also break up his family or the other woman

You will find that you have wasted your youth in a worthless pursuit which has no ending.The fruit looks succulent but its after taste is very bitter.

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