Sunday, December 14, 2008

Online dating

Would you go online to look for your future mate ?

There are others who have gone down this road and have found their true mate . It is another avenue where you can meet many types of people from different places in the world. The chances of meeting your Mr. Right maybe brighter as you cannot find him in your real world.

There are many online dating sites and some are free while others will have to pay a fee to join.You could also join those chats and forums and meet someone who might be interested in you

You will meet many men and women online and whether you are interested in him /her will depends on both your chemistry or needs.

Are you looking for your Mr.Right or M/S Right in view of friendship leading to marriage?

The virtual world is just like the real world. You will need to exercise caution before you give your trust to others.

There are stories of people finding their life partners from the internet and also horror stories of people who got cheated or conned by fraudsters or sleazy people from the net.

There are all kinds of good, bad and ugly people and you need to be careful and play safe. If anything is too good to believe, then you need to be extra careful. There have been cases where those conman or tricksters met their victims and robbed them or raped them.

After meeting and knowing your virtual friend for sometime , there maybe a possibility that you may meet them in the real . It can be exciting and interesting to see the person in the flesh.

You may think you know that person after chatting with for sometime in the net but in reality, it takes a longer time to really know somebody.

Many women made the mistake of getting emotionally involved with another person in the net whom they have not met in real life .

This person may not be what he portrays in real life. In the virtual world , he could be acting like anybody since he is anonymous. In real life , he maybe a shadow of what he is in the internet or completely opposite of his personality and character.

It is not to say everyone is like that. There is a probability that such things can happen to your friend.

You may discover that he looks so much different when he is online as he could be using someone else photo. If you spend more time together, you would find that he is another person.

In real life , a shy person could be acting very brave in the net.. An introvert can be an extrovert in the virtual world.

After the vetting process and you find that he is eligible and you want to show interest in him/her, you need to walk a fine line of not showing too much or playing hard to get.

Normally , I think , if they liked each other, it becomes a natural thing for them to go to the next stage,dating or exchanging love letters or love notes to each other and being more intimate with each other. And finally to tie the knot.

Goodluck in your quest.

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