Sunday, December 21, 2008

Speak woman, what is wrong with you ?

"If we (Man) ask what's wrong and you (Women) say nothing,we will act
like nothing's wrong. We know you're lying, but it's just not worth the
hassle.."

Simply asking what's wrong with her will not get you any replies from her. She would just shake her head and nonchalantly reply in the negative.

It can be a hassle for some but if you love your wife , you need to find out and help her with her mental problems or road blocks.

It is not easy for women to keep their feelings hidden. Their faces or their body language would show that they are affected by some problems and they are not their true self.

A man can see that a woman is unhappy and something is bugging her and he wants to help but he does not know the way to her enter her domain.

She cannot just open up to him on his first try. He needs to dig and dig till her resistance wears down and then only she will think it is worth to tell him her problems.

The man must never give up asking her and pestering her about it. She will relent when she see's his persistence and tell him finally.She wants to tell him but she is programmed only to reply after many tries.

She wants him to be really serious before she talks to him about her problems. Why did she not tell her problems when he asked initially?

It has to do with her psychology .For she thinks it may not be worth his time as it could be just a small matter.She learns to handle herself but the problem is too big for her. That is woman's way of communications.

Keep on knocking on the door and the door will open. You need to reach down into her heart and pull out the thorn or the sun will not shine in her world.

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