Will you have an affair ?

An affair is like an icing on a cake. So sweet when it melts in the mouth but it's after taste is very bitter , putrid and caustic..You wished you never had been born and want the Earth to open up and swallow you whole, to disappear completely ever from the face of this Earth.

In retrospect, it is against the natural law of the universe and also in some society or religion.
You may keep your secrets from everyone but sooner or later it will be exposed and when you are neck deep into it, there is no escape , like fallen into a cess pool or a quicksand trap.

To start an affair is easy but to end it is very difficult. No one wants an affair and are wary of it but unbeknown to them , they are slowly being lead into this quicksand when they cannot or chose not to run away from it.It is too tempting and it satisfies some of their instant gratifications which they craved in their lifeless and lukewarm marriage.

In most cases, affairs developed cos the marriage has failed or there are no more sparks or fire in that relationship.What they needed or wanted,could not be found in the marriage and so they wandered and looked outside for it. Love could have flown out of the window or died.

Some also did it because they wanted to know if they are still wanted or in demand or still can command the attentions. It gives them great satisfaction and self esteem.It is always wonderful, enjoyable and pleasing while it lasted.

The pleasure of this illicit affair can bring untold harm and enormous pain if the other side has a family.By having this liaison, you have wrecked the other family or your own family by your inconsiderate ,selfish and myopic needs.

Think carefully because the cost can be very high.