When is the best time to have your own family ?

After getting married, it is time to plan together for a family. It is natural to want children after you are married because that is the main reason why you got married.  Others would leave it to fate or God. Whether you will marry early or late or have children is decided by your destiny.

In the present generations ,many couples are three to five months pregnant when they marry.They engaged in premarital unsafe sex and as a result they became pregnant and are forced to marry to legitimize their child.

Some of them are even in school , just barely 15 and they have to quit schooling .
As parents we teach our daughters to take extra care and not indulge in pre marital sex but to no avail.

Even though she may come from a very religious background, she may still succumbs to those dark forces.Young people are curious and with raging  hormones are unpredictable.Usually ,it is the woman who should be in control and if they cannot , then we have to accept the inevitable.

For them , family hood comes upon them and they do not have a choice. For those who are able to control and plan their marriage, family hood should not come too early.They should enjoy each other and get to bond more each other.

After marriage they should enjoy the honeymoon , be free and loving towards each other without any other distractions.Building a strong foundation for their marriage .They should have at least enjoy each other for a year before starting a family . I feel that between one or two years would be most ideal.

This the time when they need to have something to make their bonding stronger.A bundle of joy being the fruits of their marriage if God is willing..

Having children in the 20's is the preferred option ,when they are in their peak condition and more able to weather the strains of parent hood. They are physically stronger and agile than in their 30's where their system has slowed down .

Comments are welcome.