Will you marry a younger man ?

In this age and time , it is not about one's age but about one's maturity and happiness quotient.If you are happy with a younger man and knows what you are getting into , what is there to prevent or obstruct you from enjoying your happiness ?

Many modern, successful and older women are having relationships with the younger men or their toyboys. These women are known as cougars in the West. The younger partners are more virile and greater looking .

Love is a many splendoured thing.When you are in love , everything is so beautiful.
It is a very passionate affair and the fire of love will consume you.You will perpetually be in a blissful state until the magic dust wears off.

There comes a time when you will have to decide to seal your love and you begin to looked deeply into his eyes and finally with one last look ,close your eyes and say I do. But before that , you wonder in the back of your mind if he is really the right one for you.

Would you accept and marry him ,if he is younger than you?

This is more of a poser for women only.Men marrying younger women is the norm.There are pro's and con's and if he has all those qualities you seek in him , there should not be a problem with his age.

You many think what happens when you are 60 or above and what will happen to him ?If you think this way about the future, you will never get married, for nobody knows what will happen in the future except God.

When you fell in love with him , you never really thought about the age difference.Initially, you could be hesitant to start a relationship but as time progresses and he has been quite persistent, you relented and got swept away by the torrents of love.

If your love for him is solid and firm, it does not matter if he is younger than you.Age is not a barrier.Some men can be more matured than others of their age.He could be ready for married life.

Women always want to look up to their men and so the men must be always stronger than them .They know they are the weaker sex and need a strong person so that they can lean upon their man when things don't work out.

This is the traditional thinking and with today's modern women earning a bigger pay cheque, they do not have to depend on the men for everything. She can call the shots .If she is not satisfied with her toyboy , she can go into the market to find another replacement.

There are some traditional women who will not marry men whom they feel are inferior to them.It would be below their dignity.

If you marry a younger and less experienced man , be prepared to teach him how to talk and how to love and treat a married woman,be prepared for heartbreaks too.Old, young or new, they still have to learn about pleasing a woman.

Theory is easy.It is difficult for a woman to tell what she wants in a marriage or what she wants from her man. Most she could do is only hint! hint !hint !

The men being so obtuse(stupid) would not get her message. The only way to get across the message to him is to say directly and bluntly to him and not to beat about the bush.Speak in plain simple English!

Just say.... I want you to....I like you to... etc..

Men are like rough diamonds or some lumps of clay before marriage and you will need to polish them into fine diamonds or mould them into a tea pot .