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Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Women. Show all posts
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Forced to perform sexual acts with her husband's friends while he watched.
Sometimes, she performs with her husband's friend while he watched on the sideline and other times they performed together while his friend watched. Maybe, they even had a threesome on some occasions.
Oh! What a wicked society this world has become!
Their world came crushing down when the woman got tired of it and reported to the police about their going on.
Why did she only come out in the open after four long years ?
The idea of asking your wife to have sex with your friend is repugnant and repulsive. She is not a commodity where you can trade her services. There is something not right if she agrees to do as she is told.
It is not just a simple matter to do the sexual act like those animals and act like nothing happens after.There are complex issues to over come as women are wired differently.
The emotional,mental and psychological issues may weigh heavily on the women and affect their future relationship.It is like letting the green and evil demons out from the dark dungeons and there is no knowing what havoc they will create.
There are some circumstances where the women are forced to have sex with those loan sharks when her husband cannot repay his debts or owe debts to others because of his addiction to gambling.
Some low life men may even pimp their wives and live off their immoral earnings.
It is very degrading to the women and no women should be forced to do what she does not want.
In some societies,like the Eskimo's, their women welcome guest to their home by sleeping with them .
There are free thinking couples who willingly or one of them being coerced to go to those swing parties.It could be the man or the woman who initiate the sexual exploits.
Some of them may have a dull sex life or their marriage is in a rut and wanted to spice up their sex life by going to those swing parties or having a friend for a threesome.
It maybe fun and exciting but the after effects may be very bitter.Whether one is forced or a willing participant, the end result does not auger well for that relationship.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,208947,00.html
Monday, July 27, 2009
Women, unusual sex and black magic .
In this modern times, do you believe that the devil can have carnal intercourse with a woman ?
Whether it is a myth or fact, it is believed that some angels secretly left Heaven for Earth to disguise themselves as men and have sex with the women and they were discovered and banished from Heaven. They were fallen angels and Earth became their abode.
There are a lot of people who believed in black magic ,especially people from Malaysia, Thailand and other countries. They believed some people have those powers to call upon those dark evil forces to do their bidding's.Some followers of these occult even rear those spirits to look after their house or properties.
Two women have filed for divorce on grounds that their husbands' unusual sex drive is linked to black magic. Having sex more than 10 times a day is very unusual and abnormal!
Either you have got a very strange and abnormal ailment or you are demonically possessed with those supernatural strengths.
They found the riddle to his unusual sex drive. There were two of them! How is this possible and why they did not detain the other person is a mystery.
Those men must have dealt in black magic according to those people. When they discovered the other person , it must have disappeared into the thin air.
Were there devil or devils who took turns having sex with those two women ?
Having sex for more than 10 times a day is no easy feat.There is definitely something fishy and supernatural about those two men. Pity those poor women who did not know what they got into .
Reference and thanks to :-
http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne%2BNews/Malaysia/Story/A1Story20090727-157272.html
Monday, June 22, 2009
Sicko Voyeur taking upskirt pix in hypermarkets and bookshops.
These people are sicko's who use the latest technology in mini spy cameras to catch the view of a woman's up skirt.It is an offense for outraging the modesty of a female and you can be fined or jailed or both.
With today's technology and cell phone cameras,no one is safe. Your most private moments maybe captured on somebody's camera or video. You will need to be extra careful in whatever you do .Even good friends may do it to you and you cannot trust anyone these days.
The next time you wear short skirts and go to hypermarkets, bookshops or any public places, be vigilant of strangers or friends who stand too close to you. I hope this will not make everyone of us paranoid .
There are at least nine pictures allegedly taken up the skirts of women in the country and have been widely circulated via the Internet recently. There could be more and probably in hundreds unless this sicko is caught.
All the women who had their pictures taken were obviously too engrossed in either reading books or looking for groceries.
You may ask , What is the hell wrong with these guys?'Have they not seen bikini women before ?
It is believed that the voyeur could have fixed a pinhole camera to his shoes or use a hidden camera in a bag before snapping the pictures by standing next to his unsuspecting victims.
The voyeur can be anyone ,even professional people who looks nice and decent on the outside but are perverts and have a warped mind inside.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://digital.asiaone.com/Digital/News/Story/A1Story20090621-149863.html
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Russian woman is a serial man rapist !
She is a young, quiet and quite good looking Russian woman. She gets acquainted with the men ,invites her victims back to her place , sedates them with clonidine .After that she undressed her victims and raped them., tightening a rope on their male organs to keep them erect.
When the victims wake up in the hospital, all they could remember was a friendly brunette who gave them drinks. If she uses those odourless and colourless date rape drug, they would not remember anything.
This is certainly extraordinary news. She is a devoted collector of horror films and spiders and could explain her extraordinary circumstances. Inviting the men like the spider telling the fly to come into her parlour. Then injecting her poison into the victim and eating them.
She is kind of weird and prefer such kinky sex where the men lie motionless like dead . She could have been bitten by those spiders and transformed into a spider women..LOL!
I am sure with her physical attributes, she could just invite those men back to her house or hotel room and have sex. Those men who accepted her invitations would probably guess what her intentions were.
Maybe, she is afraid of rejections or the men may get out of control.Whatever her reasons, she finds it better when the men are docile and under her control .
Some men may not object to being raped this way.Their only regret is that they slept though out the ordeal and do not feel any pleasure at all, just the after effects of those drugs and the trauma of it.
There are cases where those rich women who have everything in the world and they would go looking for sex with those tough looking trailer drivers in those stop and rest joints along the highways. It is bizarre but I guess they were not satisfied with their riches and mundane life. They wanted to spice up and live an extreme life.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://mosnews.com/weird/2009/06/18/blackwidow/?/456
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Moving in with a man makes a woman fat
According to a new study,moving in with the boyfriend is bad for a woman's waistline .Women tend to eat more foods that are higher in sugar and fat, and to exercise less, after moving in with a male counterpart.Women burn less calories than a man and if you eat like him , you will pile on the pounds.
That is the drawback of staying together but if they are happy , does it really matter.
I have seen the men getting fatter after they are married for sometime or when they stay with their partners.The man's health will improve because she will either cook his favourite food or eat more heartily .
When you are happy , your appetite will be good and you tend to consume more. Now that they have found each other , the women do not have to go on a diet any more. Be happy and enjoy life to the fullest!
Since there are two people now , it is easier to order the food and sometimes the surplus is not thrown away , which means that someone will have to store those foods .It would be a waste to throw them away.
Your diets will also change as the two of you do not share the same diets.When you cohabit together , you will share your diets together. Where previously you would not eat those foods because they come in a bigger portion and now you can eat a smaller portion or share with him.
What happens when your waistline grows ?
Another new study says that skipping a meal makes guys more attracted to fat women !I wonder if you really can accept this piece of research? I am the very skeptical kind .
If you believe this hypothesis or B/S, you could starve him a bit and he would be be attracted to your plumber figure . I think he is not attracted to the plumber women but to her food. His brain is in his stomach !....LOL!
Being fat can be like a curse especially for a woman. She will have a low self esteem and she will project it out unto him. If she can still feels his love, she would be a jolly good wife and happy go lucky .
If you don't want your waist line to grow, love him but don't love his diet.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://english.pravda.ru/news/science/07-04-2006/78944-diets-0
http://mensnewsdaily.com/2006/07/28/study-skipping-a-meal-makes-guys-more-attracted-to-fat-women/
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21101772/
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Women are perplexed why men act the way they do ?
In this new age of sexual freedom, the notion of sexual equality have different meanings to both men and women. Many women are painfully unaware that man's sexuality is different from woman.
They grow up thinking that men should think the same way as they do . This is a grave mistake and the sooner they realize the differences, the better they will understand the men.
Men can compartmentalize sex from love and they can have sex devoid of love. They can have sex with anything without any feelings or emotions.
It is like an animal urge which they just do it for the excitements and the release of their sexual tensions due to the build up of those male hormones, testosterone.Those hormones cause them to think of sex every few minutes.
Women think of love,romance, relationships and emotional commitments as more important than sex while the men think of sex first even if they do not declare it openly.
For the men , sex is divorced from relationships and feelings.All their actions point to one direction . How soon will he get to sleep with her? Some men need sex to sustain the relationship or they will drift away. Some women would offer sex in exchange for their love and attentions . Those men often may have a variety of partners or they love to screw around with others. Why would they think of commitment to marriage when they can enjoy now?
In the past, a man needs to marry in order to have sex. Premarital sex was a sin . Today , many women are engaged in premarital and extra marital sex. Sex is easily available and the men have no inclinations to get married and shoulder the responsibilities of a married life. They can have the cake and eat it.
In the end , she sells herself short and they are separated because she is not satisfied by the non commitment of those men.The men are drinking free milk without having to pay for it.
She wants sex to be a part of the relationship but he wants sex just for the enjoyment alone without those accompaniments like affections ,cuddling, caring and verbal intimacies.
She cannot comprehends the man's sexual drives and why they do not need the same thing as women do in order to enjoy a sexual relationship.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://books.google.com/books?id=BfmuYfz57-8C&pg=PA98&lpg=PA98&dq=Men+do+not+marry+women+like+these&source=bl&ots=rS-ta1N0cd&sig=UQe8OK1B3A6u3Pq77aHupU7LhMg&hl=en&ei=L9wnSvTUC8yAkQXR3fjoDQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=2#PPA11,M1
Friday, June 5, 2009
Women leaving men for other women ?
A lot of women may not have those feelings nor want to talk about it.It could be due to their social and religious upbringings and the desires being suppressed or branded as sinful and against the order of nature.
In recent times, we have read about those famous female stars who openly flaunt their associations with their same sex .This new culture could be gaining popularity as those stars are the vanguard of this movement and their followers would probably ape them.What they are doing would give them their approvals and legitimacy about this kind of relationships.
Sex and the City's Cynthia Nixon left a boyfriend after a decade and a half and started dating a woman and openly talking about it.Actress Lindsay Lohan and DJ Samantha Ronson were photographed together often and did not deny the news reports about their relationship.
This alternative relationships is on the rise and gaining acceptance. There are at present five states in the USA which have legalize the same sex marriage concept and more states may follow soon. Other states do recognize such a marriage even though they have not legalize it.
The taboo is lifted and the door is now open for more women to seek their own kind.This new sexual orientation is coming out of the closet.After being with men for a long time , some of these women find women are more appealing and understanding .They seek an emotional relationship and the other women is more able to fulfill that role.
Are you a gay ?
That is not an easy question to answer. It may take years before you really can come to understand about your sexuality and when you discover the truth it will change your world.
When you finally know who you are and insisted on living to your new ways, you will find the peace and freedom in your heart but it will hurt your children and husband.
It is they who must adept to your new personality and not the other way round.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/04/23/o.women.leave.menfor.women/
http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahshow/20090306-tows-women-leaving-men?cnn=yes
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Men are incorrigible liars ....because of women ?
Men are incorrigible liars and they will lie to win favours with the women.The men need their approvals unless they want to die as a lonely old man.
When they want to get into her pants, they will tell lies to make them appear smart or important.They will flatter her with lots of insincere compliments and praises.
They will claim that they are single when they are married.They will promise to call after an exciting date but will not. They will promise anything in order to win her approvals. This is a mating game to them.
There are many unscrupulous married men on the prowl looking for some adventures with those single, innocent and trusting females. The females are a gullible lot and believe most of those things men tell them.
Why do they lie?
They are programmed by the social customs and upbringings. To get the woman's approvals, they will have to repackage themselves to appeal to those women.They want to show that they are the best among the herd and that she should select him. An inexperienced woman would not be able to discern the masquerade and would fall for him.
Men have to lie because of woman's fault .It is totally unfair to blame the men alone because women are partly responsible for their actions. For every action , there is a reaction.Women play mind games and put those men to 'test' to weed out those impostors. The men will lie and cheat with intent to get past those barriers.
Sometimes, we cannot tell the truth and have to tell a white lie.There are occasions when it is better to tell a lie than the truth. Everyday , you need to practice good social skills by not telling the truth always as it can hurt your friends or love ones .
It may also jeopardize your friendship or promotion prospects.I rather be called a liar than to lose a very good friend. Women don't admit to telling lies but only spreading half truths. They seek honesty in men but they have a different standards for themselves.
How can you tell if he is lying ?
The eye is the window to his soul. By looking at his eyes, you can sense if he is telling the truth or not. His body may deceive you but it is difficult for the eye to lie. Another way is by his gestures and mannerisms. Be observant and you will know when he lies.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://english.pravda.ru/society/sex/02-05-2007/90765-men_lie-0
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Turn off the TV and Turn On Your Sex Lives
If you start watching T.V, you will get addicted to it everyday when your favourite programs come on.Many people are addicted to football or watching those serial dramas from Korea ,Hong Kong and other countries.
T.V is indispensable to many people and if you cannot watch T.V you will have those withdrawal symptoms like a drug addict. When the T.V is on , sex is put on hold.
There is only so much time left in a day after work and when T.V takes up a big proportion of your time , there is no more time left for sex.
When you are a typical middle age couple with a few kids in tow,life can become boring with repetitious tasks and there is no lack of enthusiasm anymore.Those daily chores would bury your sexual drive.
Those sexual therapist are advocating couples to 'Just do it!' If you Google this word , you would be absolutely shocked that there are 973 million results on that phrase alone and still increasing !
When you marry, your body does not belong to you anymore. Your husband has a right over them , just as you have a right over his body.
This is what marriage means. If your husband wants to have sex, even though you are not in the mood for it , you need to 'Just do it',for his sake and enjoyment. Husbands should not reject their wives when they need it too.
Most women cannot have sex when they do not feel the love.Women are programmed that way and some would use their sex as a weapon and reward or punish the men. They do not enjoy sex if love is absence.
The men should learn to love her according to her love language . Help her workload,be on her good side, pay attention to her needs and give plenty of praises.
Women expects love from men but those men simply cannot love when they do not have sex.Some men may make a show of their love for their women but those feelings are only external or superficial.
It is not real and does not come from the heart.Only when they are satisfied with the sex , do they feel the great warmth and loving feelings for their mates. After the sex, he will feel the waves of loving feeling for his mate.
Those waves may not last long and for some it could just be a few minutes and then they are back to their typical selves. That is why they need to have plenty of sex in order to keep those loving waves flowing out of their systems like the Yellowstone geyser. LOL!
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25073531/
Monday, December 15, 2008
If only I could clone myself
It would be wonderful if you can have a clone of yourself, a fembot and make her the other woman of the house while you work your butt out earning your keep.She would be under your control .This is off course just a dream or fantasy, but some day it could be a reality.
Many women are now in the work force and they find that men have it and they don't .. ‘a wife.’ Someone who would take care of their home’s and their kid’s for them.Some one would term this ‘wife’ as a ‘house husband’ in the reversal of a man’s role as a housewife.
Women have to work all day and then have to go home and cook dinner and do all those household chores.Sometimes the understanding mate will help out but still she has to do most of the burdens around the house.
When a woman works , she has no spousal support like the man’s enjoy. Whether their wife works or not, the men will still have the support of their wives. When the working mothers compete with the men in their careers, they face more impediments.
When a company expects you to perform, a man can concentrate fully on his job and leave the home and family to his wife. This is not true for a woman. She has to worry and think of those kids and all those jobs around the house.Working mothers are at a disadvantage when it comes to their careers.
Many women have such dreams but reality is, they cannot materialize. A woman wanting a ‘wife’ or her double.In some societies, the man may marry a second wife who will look after the home and family while the first wife goes out to work. A threesome ,but in some countries ,bigamy is illegal except if you are a Muslim . You can marry a second but without registering that marriage or make it legal. That way , a man can have three or as many unofficial wives as he can.
Even if she could afford the domestic help, she would still need to oversee the management and performance of the helper.The demands of a family life can take a heavy toll on those working mothers.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Should you tell your partner all your problems ?
A woman give her all in a relationship and she expects the same back from the man.Unfortunately a man cannot give his all to her as he has to think of his career and has to balance her and career in his life.Generally, most women make this wrong assumption about men until they learn the truth .
There are pro's and con's for sharing all your problems with her. It will depend on the seriousness and gravity of the issues. If it is a major thing , then the man should tell her, otherwise he should just keep it to himself and not to burden her.
Men and women are different not only physically , but emotionally and psychologically. Many may not be aware of the differences and they think their partner should think like them.
If you are still not aware of this fact , then you should better sit up straight and take real notice and all ears when your wife is speaking.
Are you really listening ? Maybe she nags too much and your inner ears are closed without your realizing it .
When you were wooing her, you were all attentive and on all fours ready to do her bidding's upon her command.But strangely, after she got hitched to you, your mind seems not to functioned like before.
You have developed an auto immune mechanism that simply shuts down the system from reaching your brain ,when they detect nagging's.(What's that you are mumbling about dear? yak! yak!yak!)
Your external ears may be opened but your mind and heart are not in tuned with what she is saying or you are not receiving the message from her loud and clear. Got those little nasty rascal Gremlins in your system.
Women worries a lot and too much.If you tell them your daily problems, soon it will not have enough hard disk to store them .
Your problems are like viruses which duplicate and crowd out all the free spaces in her hard disk and she will have those problems etched on her face whenever you meet.
So sad, so sad!! You will make her aged faster and saddled her with your burdens.
Even small problems , can look like mountains to her.
While you just tell her and then forget about it and enjoy your daily chores as if nothing has happened.
She will be worrying every now and then and it will affect her moods for the whole day or even weeks .She may not eat or sleep well after you have made known your problems to her because of her worries.
Still think it is a good idea to unload all your rubbish into her bedroom?
Maybe, very big problem where you need her strength or support.Otherwise, better to go drown yourself with your buddies and keep your stress and problems away from the home sweet home,where your homely and beautiful wife is waiting for you.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Will you marry a younger man ?
In this age and time , it is not about one's age but about one's maturity and happiness quotient.If you are happy with a younger man and knows what you are getting into , what is there to prevent or obstruct you from enjoying your happiness ?
Many modern, successful and older women are having relationships with the younger men or their toyboys. These women are known as cougars in the West. The younger partners are more virile and greater looking .
Love is a many splendoured thing.When you are in love , everything is so beautiful.
It is a very passionate affair and the fire of love will consume you.You will perpetually be in a blissful state until the magic dust wears off.
There comes a time when you will have to decide to seal your love and you begin to looked deeply into his eyes and finally with one last look ,close your eyes and say I do. But before that , you wonder in the back of your mind if he is really the right one for you.
Would you accept and marry him ,if he is younger than you?
This is more of a poser for women only.Men marrying younger women is the norm.There are pro's and con's and if he has all those qualities you seek in him , there should not be a problem with his age.
You many think what happens when you are 60 or above and what will happen to him ?If you think this way about the future, you will never get married, for nobody knows what will happen in the future except God.
When you fell in love with him , you never really thought about the age difference.Initially, you could be hesitant to start a relationship but as time progresses and he has been quite persistent, you relented and got swept away by the torrents of love.
If your love for him is solid and firm, it does not matter if he is younger than you.Age is not a barrier.Some men can be more matured than others of their age.He could be ready for married life.
Women always want to look up to their men and so the men must be always stronger than them .They know they are the weaker sex and need a strong person so that they can lean upon their man when things don't work out.
This is the traditional thinking and with today's modern women earning a bigger pay cheque, they do not have to depend on the men for everything. She can call the shots .If she is not satisfied with her toyboy , she can go into the market to find another replacement.
There are some traditional women who will not marry men whom they feel are inferior to them.It would be below their dignity.
If you marry a younger and less experienced man , be prepared to teach him how to talk and how to love and treat a married woman,be prepared for heartbreaks too.Old, young or new, they still have to learn about pleasing a woman.
Theory is easy.It is difficult for a woman to tell what she wants in a marriage or what she wants from her man. Most she could do is only hint! hint !hint !
The men being so obtuse(stupid) would not get her message. The only way to get across the message to him is to say directly and bluntly to him and not to beat about the bush.Speak in plain simple English!
Just say.... I want you to....I like you to... etc..
Men are like rough diamonds or some lumps of clay before marriage and you will need to polish them into fine diamonds or mould them into a tea pot .
Monday, December 8, 2008
Modern women - an unhappy lot ?
Women are complex human beings with many needs.Today , the modern,liberated and emancipated women are more unhappy than their mother's generations.
They have made much progress in their fight for equality with the men and as a result they have enjoyed their successes but along with it comes with a heavy price.
They are over worked, over tired, over stressed and over exhausted.There is no more juice left at the end of the day .They are only ordinary human beings and not a super woman.
Is it true that women are more unhappier than men?
It is not easy to satisfy a woman ,for they have high ideals,a perfectionist ,many insatiable wants and needs, more critical ,more competitive and more ambitious.
To buy one pair of shoes/dress/handbag, a woman may walk the whole shopping mall or all the shopping malls in the town before she is satisfied with one that she likes .
After much deliberations , she may not buy it at that instant and goes home and regret about it. She would be thinking of that item through out the day and week until either she gets it or someone else bought it .
Women of today has gained much freedom and independence and some are making more than the men. They have made an impact in every aspect of the society.
Women are redefining their roles in this new age.They are now equal and on par with the men ,though there are some bias systems that do not give them equal pay for equal work.There are still gender inequalities in some industries or sectors of the economy.
The traditional thinking of women only belonging in the home and kitchen does not apply anymore in this modern world.
Some women do have a choice to be a full time housewife or a working mum or the sole bread winner.They have more choices than men.
With this added on responsibilities of work and home, it is no wonder many women find themselves short changed.
They are now doing a man's job and at the same time a woman's responsibilities to the child and home. Their mothers only had to take care of the family and home .
They are financially helping their husband's burdens, but sadly many husbands do not help much with the house chores.With their wives working , the men can work less and relax more .
The men are happier, they don't have to foot the whole bill for the family and they can have some golf game with their buddies.
The demands from the work and the responsibilities of being a wife , mother and housekeeper becomes too heavy for her to shoulder.
Many tasks need to be done and she may not find the time nor the energy to complete them .With so many tasks still undone ,how could she feel happy?
She cannot relax and be happy. Her unhappiness may snowballed as the workload piled up.
She wants to conform to her ideals or to those around her but it is impossible to achieve single handedly.Her anxieties and worries grows and she becomes depressed.More women than men are depressed.
Whether she is married or single ,most women worry about their changing body image,physical attractiveness , their self esteem and are always not contented with what they have. They have to pander to their bodies unlike men .
The fashion industry is making their plight even worse with the new size '0′ outfits.Why don't the fashion designers use real persons?
Women have a longer 'to do list' and they cannot sit back and relax, they don't have the time to be happy..LOL!
She can be unhappy over many things, it could be her husband, the children , her in laws , her home , her boss, her friends and lastly herself.
The key to happiness is contentment and in the little things in life and not in having plenty of money, achievements or possessions.
If you want them to be happy , the men must give them tons of love , understandings and a pair of able hands to help lighten her workload.
credit and thanks to
http://www.aliciapatterson.org/APF0102/Scarf/Scarf.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=484134&in_page_id=1770
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=484355&in_page_id=1879
We're tired all the time, say 60 per cent of working mothers
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=484348&in_page_id=1770
Modern Day Marriage For Women Sucks!
Those on the outside wants to get in while those on the inside wants to get out.It is every girls wish to get married and start her own family but there is the dearth of available men and finding the right one is like looking for a needle in a haystack.
Some have given up all hope and concentrated on their careers until one day when they will discover that the world has moved on and did not wait for them.
If you are still single , take heart because there are more women remaining single than married.Eventually and hopefully many will marry in the end.
If you cannot find the right mate , no problems .You don't have to feel pressured to be married. If you are happy , stay that way.
Why modern marriage for women sucks?
During your mother’s generations , they only had to deal with child care and housework in exchange for financial security and a roof over their heads.
In this modern era, women have to work as hard or harder than a man and then still have to take care of the child and house works.
It is even worse when she has to foot the bills while the men just earn for their own keeps.Despite all her sacrifices and contributions, she gets plenty of poisonous vibes from the men and no appreciations or love or a helping hand.
That's what you get when you kiss and marry a jerk…..
Every women do want to get married and everyone of us need love and companionship.God made us that way. I am not trying to discourage marriage , maybe give some cheer to those who are still looking for their mates.
A woman is more discerning and critical when deciding a life partner.It is imbued in her system .Don't marry the first ‘jerk’ that comes along and you will regret later.
According to the New York Times , 51% of the women are living without a spouse. This percentage is sure to go higher as many women may find marriage or the men not measuring up to their expectations.
When the women were not working , they did not have very high expectations but when they entered the work force, they became over critical and had higher expectations of men.
More women are marrying later or living with unmarried partners or marriage is elusive to them. At the other end, women are living longer as widows and not remarrying.They enjoy the freedom and rediscover who they are.
Those who are married may not fare better as having a husband is just the same as being single with kids because the men are working oversea’s or out stations or in the military or in the institutions.
These are the absentee spouse. They are being married and tied down but not enjoying the fruits of a real marriage of togetherness.
Women had to work two shifts. They also work and then had to take care of the kids and and the house works .Even if the men helped them , they still have to do the major part of the jobs.They cannot trust the men from doing the job properly .
If they marry the men about their age, there is a maturity gap.Those men are inexperienced and less matured and they do not know how to treat their wives.
They have this ‘Peter Pan syndrome.’ (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Pan_syndrome ) They are forever kids and don't grow up and are narcissistic .They love themselves more than they love others. Some of them still need their mothers.
Today , women don't have to depend anymore on the men like their mother’s generations.The man’s traditional contributions in marriage becomes irrelevant as the women also take home a cheque and sometimes their cheques are bigger than the man’s. The men are not needed and becomes unwanted.
The new women has arrived but the institutions of marriage and the men are still the same.They have not changed . If they want to marry , they should not go shopping for the perfect mate.It is a rare commodity .
credit and thanks to
What is Peter Pan Syndrome?
http://www.evanbailyn.com/index.php/article/what_is_peter_pan_syndrome/
http://www.glennsacks.com/census_shows_majority.htm
Suggested readings:-
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/01/16/us/16census.html?ex=1326603600&en=8b61820a6c4712e5&ei=5090&partner=rssuserland&emc=rss
Sunday, December 7, 2008
The insatiable women...
The wants are many but the means are few. Nature has made them that way in order for them to overcome their shortcomings.
Since the days of Adam and Eve, when they were banned from the Garden of Eden by God,for eating the fruit from the Tree of knowledge, they had to fend for themselves.
Adam , being the stronger and bigger of the two became the hunter who brought back the meat for Eve to prepare.
Thus, women came to depend on the men for their food and security.Over the ages, women developed this complex even when in the present age ,they could earned more than the men and could support themselves comfortably.
This insecurity complex became ingrained in every women.
Because of this insecurity ,they felt a need to prepare for any eventualities and became very needy.
When they were young, their parents took care of their needs. They looked up to their fathers who provided them the food and the security blanket.
When they ventured out into the world to work, they felt they were all alone and subconsciously need to find a man who would take care of them and protect them like their fathers.
She goes to look out for a good man to be her life partner and who would be the extension of her father and the same environment in which she grew up from.
She would then feel secure and safe and that should anything bad befallen her or when she grows old, she would have a husband to take care of her.
In this process, she goes looking for the ‘perfect mate’ and this makes her searched high and low for this man who would be like her father figure.
Women were made to carry the burden of childbirth to perpetuate the existence of this homo sapient.She was tasked to looked after the young and be a care giver.
Her needs became myriads as she would want a good and strong male genes and a good and comfortable home for her kids to grow up in.She wants the best for their kids and for her family .
Every woman will want to seek security in a marriage but who can guarantee what the future will hold.Even if the security is written in stones or in black and white, it is pointless.You are not immortal and cannot live forever.
What does security means to a woman?
A woman wants to be loved , needed ,a husband who can fulfilled all her aspirations of a beautiful home, children and financial and emotional stability without any anxieties.
She wants to be taken care of ,loved, cherished and honoured .Some woman think of the man as their passport to get out of their own family or rut and begin a new life.
She seeks not only financial security but also security from the man who has to love her eternally through thick and thin.She will not be able to get them cast into stones and that's why they became very needy and insatiable.Always wanting the man to prove and reassure them of their love.
Almost everyone don't get enough of this love ,it is an elusive commodity.Only God’s love is true and everlasting…
Because of her attentions to details , she will have more needs than the men and will appear to be insatiable as her list of wants are endless.
Saturday, December 6, 2008
A Kiss Is Just A Kiss , But To Women It Means More .
A kiss is the meeting of two lips but it holds a deeper meaning for women.The men may not place too much emphasis on the kiss but just think of it as a sensual and physical act and nothing more. They do not or cannot see the hidden meanings behind the kiss.
A kiss maybe just a kiss to you but to women they have other meanings . Women pay particular attentions to minute things and analyzed every bit of your actions.
They need to pay more attentions to the meaning of the kiss if they want to enjoy a better relationship with their WAG's.
As your relationship is established ,she will use the kiss to check on the health, progress and status of that relationship.She could detect any wavering on your part or your love for her is still warmth ,hot or lukewarm or cold like a cadaver.
The next time you kiss your girlfriend, you better kiss her properly and with tender hearted love because how you kiss her will tell on you .She will know how much of her is in your heart.
After your terrific and sensual kiss ,you will have to look deeply into her eyes until you see the inner recesses of her heart, your eyes will have to make interesting and meaningful contact and speak the language of love .Let your eyes linger a little bit longer until she breaks contact.
The kiss from your love is always beautiful and lingers on forever ….Kiss more if you want a greater and more beautiful relationship…Kissing also burns more calories and a great way to stay slim.
If you cannot kiss, there is always the alternative.. eating chocolates.
suggested readings
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/6975794.stm
Choc is better than kissing?
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/6558775.stm
Tips for your first kiss.
http://potsource.com/2007/02/28/tips-for-the-first-kiss/
How to kiss.
http://newarticlesfree.com/articles/psychology/relations-psychology/how-to-kiss.html
How to make that someone kiss you .
http://believe-or-not.blogspot.com/2007/04/how-to-make-someone-kiss-you.html
http://channels.isp.netscape.com/love/package.jsp?name=fte/kissmeansmore/kissmeansmore&floc=wn-nx
Best age to get married ?
There are psychological, emotional, mental and physiological factors to consider when you think what is the best age to get married.
There are off course no right or wrong age to get married.It will have to depend on the maturity, right timing or your fate....
For a young girl to get married at 18 is too young as she has just left school and does not know what life is all about.No doubt, she maybe in her prime where her physical attributes are at the highest but her mental development is still lacking and have not reached her full potentials yet.
By 21 , she would have acquired some worldly knowledge and aware of her surroundings . Some girls would still be pursuing their higher studies and would not be able to enter the marriage market.
For those who marry at 21, it would be the best age as she can be considered matured physically and mentally . She is on the threshold of womanhood and getting prepared to play out her destined role.
For those who marry at 25 to 30 , after they have graduated from the university , they are at the peak and can be considered belated but still not too late to miss the marriage boat .
Women who marry at this age would have a less turbulent relationship with their spouse as they will marrying older and more matured men .They will also enjoy better living standards as they are more settled down in their careers.
For those who marry above 30, they are a very lucky lot . For those unmarried and still single after 30 ,they are prepared to resigned to their fate unless Cupid give them a helping hand.
The more desperate they become , the more they will not find their partners and maybe get some rotten apples. Thus better not to marry if there are no good men then to suffer a terrible marriage ending in a divorce.
Another category of men would be those widowers or divorced.If a man is still not married after 40, there is something not right with him.
Those above 30 and unmarried are so busy with their work commitments and have no time for any social life.Some become too choosy and reject most of their suitors. You want to pick your own choice , people also choose you.
If they have no choice and must remain single ,some of them may contemplate being single mothers by adopting babies or have their own.
For the men, I think the best age is around 35 because his maturity would be at it's height,and he would have made himself some nest eggs to sustain comfortably through his married life. He would also be less prone to quick anger and more appreciative of his wife.
Marrying in the 20's is more preferred over the 30's as her reproductive cycle is on the wane and she runs a higher risk of getting pregnant or having an imperfect baby.
Many want to marry but their expectations are unrealistic and idealistic and they cannot find the right one.He probably does not exist.
Friday, December 5, 2008
Does God make's mistakes ?
Have you ever thought of this question before? Can God make mistakes ? God is supposed to be perfect and He made men in their likeness. Since men are doomed to make mistakes , which means that either God is like us or God cannot be perfect ?
All the while , you have been accepting what you have been preached to by those church pastors and told not to question the Bible or God .
You have been accepting it as the gospel truth and never questioned the validity of those interpretations from those pastors, evangelist and preachers.Or ,you read the Bible and just simply take in what is said.
You are not critically minded and you don't question what is written because you have been conditioned or brainwashed by those teachers or pastors .
Are you in the majority group who thinks that you should never question the Bible ,God or those pastors? Did not God give us a brain to think and question what we are taught ?
Many Christians are like babies spiritually in their faith in God. They cannot think for themselves and listened only to their pastors .
What the pastor taught them , they swallowed whole ,hook,line and sinker. They think , the pastor who graduated from a seminary is right all the time.
I think this is wrong, pastors are also human beings and can make mistakes. Different pastors and different ethnic pastors have different versions. That is why there are so many denominations in the world today.
Let us examine rationally whether God can make mistakes. In the beginning, there was God and then He made angels to help Him do His work. He then made three arch angels in Gabriel, Michael and Lucifer to control all those lesser angels. Lucifer got too big headed and wanted to become God and there was a war in Heaven.Lucifer was defeated and all his angel followers were banished from Heaven.
In the beginning, God said ,Let there be light and in six days , he created the world and every plant and animals in the world and rested on the seventh day.
God created Adam in His likeness but He found that Adam was not perfect or inadequate. Adam was the first prototype. He wandered around in the garden of Eden and was lonely and God took pity on him.
When Adam was asleep, he took his rib bone and made Eve.. Why did God make Eve not the in the same likeness as Adam? Did God made a mistake in Adam? God created a more superior being to compensate what was lacking in Adam . That living being is called a woman . She was to be his helper or his 'tormentor.'
God put Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden and told them that they could eat the fruits of every tree except the fruits from the tree of knowledge. The serpent came and tricked Eve who told Adam to eat the forbidden fruit and God found them guilty and banished them from the garden.
That is what we read in the Bible. Did you think this judgment was correct or was it too harsh?
There was no mention of giving first or second warnings in the Bible. If you were conned and the judge said ,'Why are you so stupid to be conned and ate that rotten apple?.
Then the judge banished you like what the police here do when there is not enough evidence to charge you. Send you to another rural place or become a restricted person.
Did God made a mistake. ? God is an all forgiving God. Why did God not forgive them ? Is it not contradictory to His teachings about forgiveness?
The mistake being, He did not made Eve smarter and was tricked by the serpent. Was it Eve's fault? God is a compassionate God but he expelled them from the garden..God's forgiveness is limitless , yet He did not forgive Adam and Eve even though it was not exactly Adams fault.Blame it on the women .
In another incident, God wanted to destroy Sodom and Gomorrah but Lot ,interceded to God and asked Him to hold back. He told God , if He destroyed those two cities, He would also destroyed some good Christians .
Then God asked Lot if he can find 10 Christians in that two city, He would not destroy the two cities.Did God's fury blinded his decisions to destroy the cities and even those good Christians until Lot interceded and God relented?
Did God destroyed those two cities because they did not worshipped God but engaged in the same sex? God was angry the people did not listened to Him and worshipped idols and they lusted for the same kind.
Because of that, did God outlaw homosexuals? What if those people worshiped God in those two cities and they did have the gay sex? Would God be so kind to save the city and then slowly lead them back to the right path ?
I don't have the answers. These are thought provoking ideas. You decide and believe whatever you want.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Do women enjoy sex ?
Sex is a very beautiful thing if you know how to enjoy it.It is an expression of the deepest love and the oneness and the closeness and pleasures of sexual intimacies.Marriage is the main course and sex the desserts..
Sex can be enjoyed by both woman and man.It has been found that woman's capacities and desires for sexual activities matched that of man or even known to exceed those of man.Some woman's sex drive is akin to a sports car while others are like old boneshaker.
Some woman in certain societies don't find enjoyment in sex , because she has too many inhibitions learned from her mother or from the social etiquette prevailing in that society.They listened too much to those old folks tales and it gets impregnated in their minds.
Some of these woman learns from young , usually from their mothers or from friends that sex is dirty and only for the men or to please man only and not for them to enjoy .
Some woman use it as a reward or a punishments for their husbands.If you don't treat me well, I will withhold and will not let you enjoy.One of those woman's arsenal when you don't do as she wants or her needs not satisfied.
Being too sexy is not normal and one can be called a slut or a loose woman.Some believed that sex is only for making babies and it is a duty for them.They are not so adventurous to experiment and only use the missionary position all the time.
Some believe that sex is not important as long as you have mutual respects and companionship.To woman, love is more important but they never thought that sex is also important to the man. Woman can think of their needs and sometimes they do not think of the husbands needs. They are sensitive to what they want and expect their husbands to be sensitive towards them.
If they don't get the love from the husband during the day, they will not give theirs during the night and this cycle continues till they become cold with each other like a ice barrier between them.
Man are to be blamed too for they do not understand the emotional and psychological nature of woman.They need to be patient and learn from their wife what they want from them and how they need to go about it.
Sometimes, woman cannot teach the man and they give up They expect their man to read their minds or be a clairvoyance.
Some woman cannot enjoy sex because they fear getting pregnant , even though there are many methods of contraception's .The fear of pain in childbirth puts them off.
During sex, her mind is not fully in it.She could be multitasking . She worry if the door is locked or not and the kids don't suddenly barged in while they are doing it.
She also worry if they are too loud.If she is not 100% in the love making, and completely free, how can she concentrate and enjoy..She needs to let go and not multitask when in love making. They are build that way and you cannot really blame them because the men do not get pregnant or have those unstable hormones.
A woman is like a cup, you need to fill her cup with your love till it is overflowing and she would pour it back into your cup.She needs to feel your love before she can set herself free and enjoy sex. When yo do or satisfy her needs, she will want to repay back your kindness .I scratch your back, you scratch mine..
Most wife gets cooked up in the house and want to go shopping or get outside the house.Taking her shopping is a great get together. Before you were married you used to accompany her to those mega malls for window shopping or just to while away the time.After marriage you stopped going out with her altogether.Going shopping with her is showing that u love her..she would love it.
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