Women are perplexed why men act the way they do ?

In this new age of sexual freedom, the notion of sexual equality have different meanings to both men and women. Many women are painfully unaware that man's sexuality is different from woman.

They grow up thinking that men should think the same way as they do . This is a grave mistake and the sooner they realize the differences, the better they will understand the men.

Men can compartmentalize sex from love and they can have sex devoid of love. They can have sex with anything without any feelings or emotions.

It is like an animal urge which they just do it for the excitements and the release of their sexual tensions due to the build up of those male hormones, testosterone.Those hormones cause them to think of sex every few minutes.

Women think of love,romance, relationships and emotional commitments as more important than sex while the men think of sex first even if they do not declare it openly.

For the men , sex is divorced from relationships and feelings.All their actions point to one direction . How soon will he get to sleep with her? Some men need sex to sustain the relationship or they will drift away. Some women would offer sex in exchange for their love and attentions . Those men often may have a variety of partners or they love to screw around with others. Why would they think of commitment to marriage when they can enjoy now?

In the past, a man needs to marry in order to have sex. Premarital sex was a sin . Today , many women are engaged in premarital and extra marital sex. Sex is easily available and the men have no inclinations to get married and shoulder the responsibilities of a married life. They can have the cake and eat it.

In the end , she sells herself short and they are separated because she is not satisfied by the non commitment of those men.The men are drinking free milk without having to pay for it.

She wants sex to be a part of the relationship but he wants sex just for the enjoyment alone without those accompaniments like affections ,cuddling, caring and verbal intimacies.

She cannot comprehends the man's sexual drives and why they do not need the same thing as women do in order to enjoy a sexual relationship.










Reference and thanks to :-

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