I can’t help who I fall in love with.”

A mother looking after her six kids by herself can be a very hard,tough and unrewarding job.Her six children were fathered by four men and now she has abandoned ship and went for her son's best pal who is only 18.She has turned into a cougar.( A middle age woman who falls in love with a man half her age or could be her son's age.)

What made her to ditched her six kids for her son's best pal ?

Debbie Mallinson, 36, fled her home and moved in with toyboy Adam Caban in Falmouth, Cornwall.

The two eldest son went and lived with their relatives while the other four were put into foster care.

She left in a dramatic way by climbing out of the window and sprinting down into a waiting taxi. Was she in any danger that she has to escape in this fashion?

She left after a blazing row with her eldest son. She could have left to teach him a lesson. In the East, mothers are very strict and the children even if physically stronger than the mother would not dare to lay a hand on her.The children would obey the mother most of the time.The children may argue with their mothers but they would not be so bold as to strike their mothers.

Apparently she could not cope with the workload as she phoned the social services.
It is not easy being a single parent. We cannot judge her because she did not get any support from her ex's.

Now , she is free to do whatever she wants but I think she may have regrets . She told social services she wants the kids back eventually and wants to bring them up with her new boyfriend. I don't know if this union will last. Since she already went through with four guys,she will most probably break another record .

Probably when her new boyfriend gets a job and be able to support those kids. It will be a very big burden for such a young man who will have to give up his freedom .An 18 year's old kid may not have the maturity or experience in holding responsibilities in a marriage and he may even have to be taken care off by his parents.

If those four guys cannot last, what are this new lover's chances? He will not be able to take care of her and will have to depend on her .Perhaps ,it is just temporary insanity after all and things will go back to normal again.

There are some women who can give up their children because of their careers or ambitions. There are others who cannot carry on the burden of looking so many kids and simply give up by running away .

It sounds crazy to me but when one is under tremendous pressures and stress, one can just run away from all those difficulties.It is lucky for her to live in that country , there is the social services who will look after her kids by arranging for foster homes.

This is like a comedy and I don't know whether to laugh or to cry for that poor lady.I hope good sense will prevail in the end and that she will come to her senses before those kids reject her.

We cannot stop anyone from falling in love with us but we can control ourselves from falling in love with others.If we cannot help falling in love with anyone,then we will be like some insane person..LOL!

Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/2473496/Mum-of-six-dumps-kids-for-sons-pal-18.html