Best age to get married ?

There are psychological, emotional, mental and physiological factors to consider when you think what is the best age to get married.

There are off course no right or wrong age to get married.It will have to depend on the maturity, right timing or your fate....


For a young girl to get married at 18 is too young as she has just left school and does not know what life is all about.No doubt, she maybe in her prime where her physical attributes are at the highest but her mental development is still lacking and have not reached her full potentials yet.

By 21 , she would have acquired some worldly knowledge and aware of her surroundings . Some girls would still be pursuing their higher studies and would not be able to enter the marriage market.

For those who marry at 21, it would be the best age as she can be considered matured physically and mentally . She is on the threshold of womanhood and getting prepared to play out her destined role.

For those who marry at 25 to 30 , after they have graduated from the university , they are at the peak and can be considered belated but still not too late to miss the marriage boat .

Women who marry at this age would have a less turbulent relationship with their spouse as they will marrying older and more matured men .They will also enjoy better living standards as they are more settled down in their careers.

For those who marry above 30, they are a very lucky lot . For those unmarried and still single after 30 ,they are prepared to resigned to their fate unless Cupid give them a helping hand.

The more desperate they become , the more they will not find their partners and maybe get some rotten apples. Thus better not to marry if there are no good men then to suffer a terrible marriage ending in a divorce.

Another category of men would be those widowers or divorced.If a man is still not married after 40, there is something not right with him.

Those above 30 and unmarried are so busy with their work commitments and have no time for any social life.Some become too choosy and reject most of their suitors. You want to pick your own choice , people also choose you.

If they have no choice and must remain single ,some of them may contemplate being single mothers by adopting babies or have their own.

For the men, I think the best age is around 35 because his maturity would be at it's height,and he would have made himself some nest eggs to sustain comfortably through his married life. He would also be less prone to quick anger and more appreciative of his wife.

Marrying in the 20's is more preferred over the 30's as her reproductive cycle is on the wane and she runs a higher risk of getting pregnant or having an imperfect baby.

Many want to marry but their expectations are unrealistic and idealistic and they cannot find the right one.He probably does not exist.