A GRADUATE OR NON GRADUATE WIFE?

For a man , whether his potential wife is a graduate or not is immaterial.As long as he likes her and loves her .He would be able to support his wife whether she works or not..

There are pro's and con's .Whether you want to marry a graduate or a non graduate , it will depend on each individual's personality and taste or preferences.


Personally , I don't see any differences between those two groups of girls ,just that one has a higher paper qualifications in a certain field .It does not mean that the high school or college girl loses out .

But does that mean that the graduate would make a better wife and mother ?Does it mean that the graduate has a higher IQ?

There are no good or bad points if u marry either. There are the good, the bad and the ugly and it does not differentiates whether you are a graduate or not.

A university degree make's one sound smug but in reality there are many people who cannot make it to the university due to many reasons .So are we to condemned these girls into oblivion?

Having a degree or not is just one of the criteria's in our selection of a mate but it is not the most important criteria for most men.

Even if you are a graduate , you still have to learn mothering just like the non graduate gals. This is a different field all together.. Being natural mothers or wife is an art where you perfect them as you go along that journey.Talking from experiences..

Do you know what it is like to marry a graduate or a non graduate wife? There are good and bad in both cases so we just deal in generalities.

I feel that love is the most important ingredient in a marriage ,for love covers a multiple of sins .

When you are in love, everything is beautiful and you wont see the other's sin and faults..Without love, graduate or not , the marriage will not last..

It is erronous to think that a graduate is better than a non graduate when it comes to wife material. You need to read her personality and character.

A working graduate wife would be an advantage but there are also disadvantages.If you think the advantages outweights the disadvantages then go ahead and marry a graduate.

A graduate wife who works , may share in the finances and you don't have to carry the full financial burden of raising a home .There are drawbacks as she has little time to be a wife or mother to the kids as she has to work.

She would also be smarter and moved in the same wave length with you. This smartness or intelligence of her could also be a bane when she has an opinion of her own .

She can exert her dominance over her partner in their relationships.That's the reason why many men prefer to marry down so that the men can lord over their wive. They become too bossy and acquired those male traits and lose some of their femininity.

Many smart women pretend to be ‘dumb’ sometimes to make the men feel better .It is still a man’s world.She has to give the man some honour in the soceity .

The disadvantage is that your wife will not have much time to dote on you as she could be very caught up with her work load at the office. Having a a working wife is like having only half of her. You will be exposing her to those vultures in the office and some men can lose plenty of sleep over that.

Theory is one thing but when you married the one you chose ,then your real life begins.Then you can come back here to tell us your preferences or whether you have made the right decisions.

These days to have a non working wife is a luxury ,many cannot afford. What with  everything going up!.

Some men fall instantly in love on the 1st look and then they let their hearts do their talking.They don't think with their heads anymore.

Some men only fall in love on the 2nd look.. love creeps slowly into their hearts without them knowing.

Women don't fall into love so easily but when they do, they are like runaway trains without brakes.. Kapish!

Whether you marry a graduate or non graduate will depend on your fate or destiny or if they truly love a girl, it does not matter…..



What is your opinion?