Do women enjoy sex ?

Sex is a very beautiful thing if you know how to enjoy it.It is an expression of the deepest love and the oneness and the closeness and pleasures of sexual intimacies.Marriage is the main course and sex the desserts..


Sex can be enjoyed by both woman and man.It has been found that woman's capacities and desires for sexual activities matched that of man or even known to exceed those of man.Some woman's sex drive is akin to a sports car while others are like old boneshaker.

Some woman in certain societies don't find enjoyment in sex , because she has too many inhibitions learned from her mother or from the social etiquette prevailing in that society.They listened too much to those old folks tales and it gets impregnated in their minds.

Some of these woman learns from young , usually from their mothers or from friends that sex is dirty and only for the men or to please man only and not for them to enjoy .

Some woman use it as a reward or a punishments for their husbands.If you don't treat me well, I will withhold and will not let you enjoy.One of those woman's arsenal when you don't do as she wants or her needs not satisfied.

Being too sexy is not normal and one can be called a slut or a loose woman.Some believed that sex is only for making babies and it is a duty for them.They are not so adventurous to experiment and only use the missionary position all the time.

Some believe that sex is not important as long as you have mutual respects and companionship.To woman, love is more important but they never thought that sex is also important to the man. Woman can think of their needs and sometimes they do not think of the husbands needs. They are sensitive to what they want and expect their husbands to be sensitive towards them.

If they don't get the love from the husband during the day, they will not give theirs during the night and this cycle continues till they become cold with each other like a ice barrier between them.

Man are to be blamed too for they do not understand the emotional and psychological nature of woman.They need to be patient and learn from their wife what they want from them and how they need to go about it.

Sometimes, woman cannot teach the man and they give up They expect their man to read their minds or be a clairvoyance.

Some woman cannot enjoy sex because they fear getting pregnant , even though there are many methods of contraception's .The fear of pain in childbirth puts them off.

During sex, her mind is not fully in it.She could be multitasking . She worry if the door is locked or not and the kids don't suddenly barged in while they are doing it.

She also worry if they are too loud.If she is not 100% in the love making, and completely free, how can she concentrate and enjoy..She needs to let go and not multitask when in love making. They are build that way and you cannot really blame them because the men do not get pregnant or have those unstable hormones.
 

A woman is like a cup, you need to fill her cup with your love  till it is overflowing and she would pour it back into your cup.She needs to feel your love before she can set herself free and enjoy sex. When yo do or satisfy her needs, she will want to repay back your kindness .I scratch your back, you scratch mine..


Most wife gets cooked up in the house and want to go shopping or get outside the house.Taking her shopping is a great get together. Before you were married you used to accompany her to those mega malls for window shopping or just to while away the time.After marriage you stopped going out with her altogether.Going shopping with her is showing that u love her..she would love it.