The insatiable women...

The wants are many but the means are few. Nature has made them that way in order for them to overcome their shortcomings.

Since the days of Adam and Eve, when they were banned from the Garden of Eden by God,for eating the fruit from the Tree of knowledge, they had to fend for themselves.

Adam , being the stronger and bigger of the two became the hunter who brought back the meat for Eve to prepare.

Thus, women came to depend on the men for their food and security.Over the ages, women developed this complex even when in the present age ,they could earned more than the men and could support themselves comfortably.

This insecurity complex became ingrained in every women.
Because of this insecurity ,they felt a need to prepare for any eventualities and became very needy.

When they were young, their parents took care of their needs. They looked up to their fathers who provided them the food and the security blanket.

When they ventured out into the world to work, they felt they were all alone and subconsciously need to find a man who would take care of them and protect them like their fathers.

She goes to look out for a good man to be her life partner and who would be the extension of her father and the same environment in which she grew up from.

She would then feel secure and safe and that should anything bad befallen her or when she grows old, she would have a husband to take care of her.

In this process, she goes looking for the ‘perfect mate’ and this makes her searched high and low for this man who would be like her father figure.

Women were made to carry the burden of childbirth to perpetuate the existence of this homo sapient.She was tasked to looked after the young and be a care giver.

Her needs became myriads as she would want a good and strong male genes and a good and comfortable home for her kids to grow up in.She wants the best for their kids and for her family .

Every woman will want to seek security in a marriage but who can guarantee what the future will hold.Even if the security is written in stones or in black and white, it is pointless.You are not immortal and cannot live forever.

What does security means to a woman?

A woman wants to be loved , needed ,a husband who can fulfilled all her aspirations of a beautiful home, children and financial and emotional stability without any anxieties.

She wants to be taken care of ,loved, cherished and honoured .Some woman think of the man as their passport to get out of their own family or rut and begin a new life.

She seeks not only financial security but also security from the man who has to love her eternally through thick and thin.She will not be able to get them cast into stones and that's why they became very needy and insatiable.Always wanting the man to prove and reassure them of their love.

Almost everyone don't get enough of this love ,it is an elusive commodity.Only God’s love is true and everlasting…

Because of her attentions to details , she will have more needs than the men and will appear to be insatiable as her list of wants are endless.