Tuesday, December 23, 2008

A simple compliment will go a long way .

Everyone of us loves compliments especially women . They love been complimented upon and will never get enough of it. The more the better for it reveals and reinforces the truth about her.

Some men take their wives for granted and seldom compliment them or are not generous with it. It is inexpensive and will not cost them anything and some men find it difficult to compliment them but are very liberal with their criticisms of their WAGS.

The men simply do not understand the power of compliments .Perhaps
it could be that they seldom receive any compliments and hence they do not know how to dish it out by the bucketful.

Since we know that women are different from men , they are seeking for validations of their existence and that their decisions are right. Generally , most women have low self esteem and confidence. The women are in a habit of seeking opinions from others.

If you want to make her happy and contented , you will need to praise her and give more compliments and don't criticize her.

In the Chinese culture , whenever someone gives them a compliment,they tend to downplay the compliments and it seemed O.K because we appear to be modest about it.

If you do not do that , it may appear that you are proud and a show off. This behavior can be baffling to the Westerners. They would just acknowledge it and say a simple thank you .

Anyway, the compliment is given and the giver does not take to heart what is said in returned .A compliment is given with an open heart and mind.It depends on how close you are to that person.

Compliments if given genuinely will always make the recipient happy and they will try to find something nice to say back in return.It's a two way traffic. Some of them give compliments in order to fish for some compliments in return.

Always try to give praises and compliments to your wife and kids to make them feel loved and happy.Many parents only know how to criticize their kids and seldom praise them.

Praise and compliment more and see the results.

Suggested readings,

http://ezinearticles.com/?Your-Successful-Marriage-3-Easy-Tips-To-Master-The-Art-Of-Compliment-Giving&id=1052916

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