Monday, December 1, 2008

FOR LOVE OR FOR MONEY ..?

Asked any woman if she will marry for love or for money, 90% would say ,they will marry for love. 

To say that they will marry for money sounds mercenary and can reflect badly upon her as a gold digger . She marries him for the love of another kind..his money..LOL!



Woman are conditioned in their earlier years to look for a man who will take care of her for life.A life sentence for the man who married her.

A woman has many needs and her needs are far greater than a man. It is built into her system .First of all , she will have to bear children and to be the main caregiver .It is natural that she will want to have a comfortable home surroundings for her offspring. Her needs will be many and it would seemed insatiable to man.

Money alone is worthless unless it can buy you services or things. If you have plenty of money and lived in the desert,it will not bring you any advantage.

All of us have wants and needs.Our main needs are for food and shelter.If we have food and shelter , we will survive and not die.

Whereas our wants are endless but our means of getting them is limited by our abilities.We want to live a life of luxury , have everything the world can offer us. This is a materialistic world.

We have so many new inventions, gizmos and technology the world can offer us to enjoy unlike in our parents time when even if you have money , you do not have those new high tech electronic products.

Will you marry for love or for money? Everyone of us will have to decide for themselves.. No money no talk or no money no honey !

Love is the glue that holds two people together.Money , the lack of it or too much can cause frictions in a marriage.

I have seen couples who loved each other very much when they were struggling to survived and when they became well off, their marriage was strained and finally broke apart.

Being poor and loving is much better than being rich but empty..If you have no love for him, but only for his money, he will have the same thoughts .

Those on the outside ,want to get in ,while those on the inside want to get out.That is the paradox of life.

Your marriage becomes a marriage of convenience ,emptiness and meaningless.When you have alot of money , you want love, but the love you will get is just skin deep..finding real love is an elusive dream.


Posted by Laura

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