What If You Suddently become very Rich?

There are many ways to become rich. You can be rich by striking the lottery, work hard , save and invest into properties and stocks, rob a bank or inherit a very big sum from your long lost relatives .

We all want to be rich and opulent. It is everyone’s dream to be rich and live a care free life and enjoy what the world can offer us .Not many will realize their dreams, for some , it will just be a dream only.

For those who instantly become rich through striking the lottery or inheriting a sudden windfall from some deceased relatives , their life's maybe turned upside down.


There are some people who consult ‘bomohs’ (Malay medium- witchcraft)or go to the cemetery to get the lucky numbers from the dead in the middle of the night.

They will put bamboo stakes around the grave and pour chicken blood all around and the medium goes into a trance to connect with the dead to ask for numbers to buy in the lottery.

I have heard stories which can be frightening and whether it is true or not, I do not know. It was said that the spirit of the dead would give the numbers but in return they asked for a house to be built for them.

Not knowing the real meaning of the spirits request, they agreed to it. When they did strike the lucky number and became very rich , they suddenly met with an accident and passed away.

If you are a Christian , you would understand the ‘house ‘ in spirit terms is your life or body or soul and not some paper and bamboo house you buy and burn for the deceased in the Chinese custom.They sold their souls to the devil…

Being middle class or poor and suddenly catapulted to the rich is not easy to handle .The change can be too drastic and will present new problems.

The things that your like and enjoy are no more feasible for you because of your new found wealth.You will find that being rich has its own limitations .It still does not give you the right to do whatever you please.

In a certain land , the rich do enjoy certain privileges and could be above the law of the country. The rich and powerful are a law unto themselves.

Your views of others will change and your perspective of everything will not be the same again. You will be able to do things which were once out of your reach or dreams.

Money may buy many things for you but there are those intangible things which money cannot buy,love, relationships ,happiness ,joys and contentment's.

Being suddenly rich can have it’s tale of woe’s. All your old friends will be gone as the divide is too great and many of them will view you in a different light .

There will be many who will be out to con you with sad tales and your sympathy or to ask for donations for everything. You will be pestered and hounded to no ends..LOL!

You too will not have the same thoughts about them. Sadly , you may make new found friends but those friends will just be superficial ones only . The more richer you are ,the more lonely you will become as rich men are not plenty .

Read Mr.Jack Whittaker’s story, the biggest jackpot winner in the US ….US$317M His dreams turned into a nightmare…

Money easy come, will easy go.....

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FOR LOVE OR FOR MONEY ..?

Asked any woman if she will marry for love or for money, 90% would say ,they will marry for love. 

To say that they will marry for money sounds mercenary and can reflect badly upon her as a gold digger . She marries him for the love of another kind..his money..LOL!

Woman are conditioned in their earlier years to look for a man who will take care of her for life.A life sentence for the man who married her.

A woman has many needs and her needs are far greater than a man. It is built into her system .First of all , she will have to bear children and to be the main caregiver .It is natural that she will want to have a comfortable home surroundings for her offspring. Her needs will be many and it would seemed insatiable to man.

Money alone is worthless unless it can buy you services or things. If you have plenty of money and lived in the desert,it will not bring you any advantage.

All of us have wants and needs.Our main needs are for food and shelter.If we have food and shelter , we will survive and not die.

Whereas our wants are endless but our means of getting them is limited by our abilities.We want to live a life of luxury , have everything the world can offer us. This is a materialistic world.

We have so many new inventions, gizmos and technology the world can offer us to enjoy unlike in our parents time when even if you have money , you do not have those new high tech electronic products.

Will you marry for love or for money? Everyone of us will have to decide for themselves.. No money no talk or no money no honey !

Love is the glue that holds two people together.Money , the lack of it or too much can cause frictions in a marriage.

I have seen couples who loved each other very much when they were struggling to survived and when they became well off, their marriage was strained and finally broke apart.

Being poor and loving is much better than being rich but empty..If you have no love for him, but only for his money, he will have the same thoughts .

Those on the outside ,want to get in ,while those on the inside want to get out.That is the paradox of life.

Your marriage becomes a marriage of convenience ,emptiness and meaningless.When you have alot of money , you want love, but the love you will get is just skin deep..finding real love is an elusive dream.


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