Why intelligent ,professional and beautiful women can get conned of their money and love?

It is a sad reality when no women whatever her backgrounds can be immune to such con artists .It is just her bad luck to meet such a scoundrel.

The charming , handsome and supposedly rich suitor turns out to be a fake and takes off with her love and money .

Women may be intelligent and smart but when it comes to love, they are blinded by love and their normal brains stopped functioning.Their alarm system are neutralized and even if they were informed, they would still not believe that their love is a rogue.


They do not want to admit that they are wrong and so carry on till too late ,all her money is gone or they land in trouble with the law.

They go on auto pilot, moved by feelings for the man or a Casanova type who is usually very great looking and suave and have the gift of the gab.

These type of man are experts in woman's emotional and psychological makeup.They are very experienced and knows every trick of how to get their woman. They are lady killers.

Money must be handled carefully. That is what those scoundrels are after ,money and sex which is secondary.Never trust anyone with your money ,not even your spouse and do not let your spouse know you have a secret savings stashed away for your own use or for rainy days.

If you give the man lots of money because he told you a sob story or some bullshit story, you have been had!Those men lie through their teeth .Never part with your money to anyone or even to your spouse when they tell you any sob or tragic tales.

Money no talk!. Whether you are married or single , it is still the same .. never part with your hard earned money to anyone.A fool and his money will soon be gone.

If the deal seems too good to be true, you are probably swallowing his bait. Even if you have the money , you must pretend that you are broke and penniless. Those people can be ruthless and clean you out completely.They even take your phones or laptops or any expensive things you possess. Be firm and say a big ' NO!'

They may not ask for cash directly but they could use your name to take out loans to buy numerous cars or houses and after you have signed on the dotted line , they would abscond and disappear from your life completely .

It is unwise to give money and sex before marriage. The man has everything and why would he want to marry you and then have the responsibilities or expose his dark backgrounds.He could be married or have another family in another state.

In getting married , he would have to register and then his scams would be exposed.If a man does not want to marry but to continue living on your expense and getting free food, lodging and sex…,then there is something wrong with the man.

After one or two years he may get bored with you and leave or when there is no more money from you, either way ,the woman loses.

Be a smart woman,don't give anything away if you don't get anything in return .Love must be reciprocated., signed ,sealed and delivered.Otherwise, you have been used and will be labeled a dumb ,cheap and stupid woman.

Don't be too trusting .

It does not only happen to the smartest women but also to the men. There was a recent news that a runaway bride cons 10 men and some of them still wanted to marry her !(http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne%2BNews/Malaysia/Story/A1Story20081211-106930.html)

Falling in love is a hazard and you need to be very certain before you leap forward.

Suggested readings :-

WARNING SIGNS THAT YOUR LOVER IS A LIAR

http://www.divorce360.com/divorce-articles/news/celebrity/when-your-lover-is-a-liar.aspx?artid=1434