A happy woman is like a ripe plum.

Are there any happy women out there? Even if she feels happy , it will be only for a very short while.

Woman's wants and needs are insatiable .They are insecure about their appearances, their careers,their future or anything you can think off. They continuously sow doubts about their abilities,performances and self worth.

They want to accomplish many things and discover that they cannot be everywhere . They want to be the perfect wife, mother and career women and be a good and naughty nymph at bedtime .

They found that they do not have the time , energy and space to do all those chores .As a result many are disappointed , unhappy, tired and stressed out. They took on more than they can chew.

Life is about living and is like a long train journey on Earth which never ends. There are many interesting new places to see and new things to do each day.

We cannot jump at warp speed from one destination to another . A long journey will take time and to really enjoy the journey , one must saviour every moment of it . Life will go on at it's own pace .

Why the rush to reach the end of the destinations?


Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1189064/What-YOUR-best-sex-decade-Five-women-reveal-age-lives-passionate.html

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To live happily ever after....

According to the Chinese tradition, a man or a woman who is unmarried is considered a child even if s/he grows old. It is quite true because s/he does not know and understand what is the responsibility of a parent and will be less matured than a married man/woman

A guy will have no worries before marriage but after marriage, their worries will start and they become matured in their thinking's.While the woman worries about finding the right husband before marriage. This is an irony of life.

If you want to make your marriage like a fairy tale and live happily ever after, you will have to do certain things to turn her into a beautiful princess.

Make a spell and cast on her and turn her into a Stepford wife. Give her a big diamond as a surprise if you are loaded . If not ,go to the bazaar to buy her a cheap imitation Russian diamond.

So your ultra modern wife thinks this submissive thing is outdated and wants equality . If you want her to listen to you ,it is not difficult.

Love her to the hilt and she will surrender all to you.Woman are like that , they need to be conquered. You will become her boss or King and she will be like the sweet kitten .

After you have stolen her heart for safe keeping , you must take very good care of it. You need to respect her and always asked for her opinions first to make her feel like a V V I P.

If her views or plans are wiser than yours, you must shower her with lots of affections and praised her sky high.
Then she will feel more appreciated , understood, valued and smarter than you.

Then she will love you more and more. You must be wise enough and willing to seek Her Majesty's counsel .

Be more observant of your surroundings or your wife's appearances. Use your eyes to the fullest.Have a photographic memory before and after you left for work and when you come back from work.

Detect any new changes in your home or in her. You must be like Sherlock Holmes ,use a magnifying glass to detect the clues and evidence in your home.

If you see any changes in her or the house give your positive feed backs. Turn on your positive mind even if you don't like what you see.It is not what you like or don't like but what she likes and you pander to her.You must be of the same mind as hers.

Little things mean a lot to your wife. You showed that you still have much interest in her and your acknowledgment is very important to her mental health.

She feeds on those great comments which will make her day. You should realize that it will score a lot of Brownie points with her and at night , she will repay you back with interest.

If she cooked your favourite dish or tried something new , don't take her for granted, thank her and give biggie smiles. Thanks may not be enough ,if you don't smile and show all your crooked teeth.

If she bought a new dress, new perfume or new hairstyle and looks good or smells good,compliment her .She did it all for you and you should learn to appreciate her more.

Don't gripe about the cost to her or show you Ebeneezer face.Make sure she got available funds in her credit cards.Bite your tongue and howl in pain when she is only out of your sights and mind.

No matter how small an item may be to you, it may be very important to your wife that you notice and validate what she has done.

Don't underestimate the importance of those little ,little words of encouragements and praises.It means a lot to her.She will love you more for it.Don't just focus on yourself or your job. Leave your job in the office and concentrate on her when you are at home.

Just open your mouth a little and oil that tongue of yours .Don't forget to mention those golden three little words here and then and see with your eyes and it wont cost you a dime but the results is well worth the small efforts you put into those little words.

Don't just know how to eat and drink only.Your mother did not teach you how to say 'Thank you.'Surprise her with small presents or things which she like's ,to show your appreciations of what she has done for you.This shows that you really care and love her from head to toe.

A beautiful woman if wrongly treated in a marriage can look old and sad while a normal Jane can look like a princess beaming with joy and inner beauty if she is well treated .

If you can do all that , you will live happily ever after and if you failed, you will be turned into a toad.

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Are you happy , depressed or stuck in a time warp..?

Why are some people happy ,while some are sad and depressed? What is it that makes a person happy ? What is the key to a happy life ?

The present world is moving into a depression and many have been retrenched or unable to repay their housing loans ,credit card debts and all types of loans.

To lose one's home is very depressing . Those who have climbed higher in life and fell down can be very painful and some have ended their life because of their failures.

In life, there are ups and downs and we need to adjust or downsize our lifestyle.
The world we live in now is a materialistic world.

We can be less materialistic and we can still live a happy life as long as we have food on the table and a roof over our heads.

Gratefulness and contentment is the key to a happy life.The other strong factor is the faith and the trust in God.We need to focus on God and have faith and believe in Him. Our present circumstances are only temporary and not permanent.There is a time for everything, a time to sow and a time to reap.

Being happy is a matter of perspective. If you are the happy go lucky type, good for you .You know what it takes to be happy.Come rain or shine , you will carry on with life with a happy dispositions.

Nothing gets you down and you are an optimist.You become the master while others become slaves to money or time.You always have hope when there is none.

Being religious also is a good factor because you believe in a God who is all seeing and knowing..omnipotent(Almighty all powerful) omniscience(Infinite knowledge) and omnipresence (Everywhere always there)Your God knows what is best for you ,trust in Him for He provides everything you need.

Well! If your God is not listening , then you should switch to the one who answers your prayers.

If you are depressed, it is because of the devil.You have so many problems and your puny mind cannot seem to handle or over come them.In life, there will always be challenges and problems to solved. Don't let all those problems stop you from enjoying life.Tackle one problem at a time and go for those easy one's first.

For those hard one's ,give over to father time , for time is a great healer and problem solver.
Don't need to crack your head for an instant solution.In time , the solution or answer will manifest by itself and it was so simple that you never thought about it.Maybe , there is no answer at all and you just let it go

If you are stuck in a time warp or zone and in a state of limbo ,not here or there then you will need to push harder to get out from that state.If you cannot , then you will have to ask from a stronger power source from your God.

You will never be happy if you continue to seek for materialistic things and not the spiritual .

The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where they can be quiet, alone with the heavens, nature and God. Because only then does one feel that all is as it should be and that God wishes to see people happy, amidst the simple beauty of nature.-Anne frank
(http://www.wisdomquotes.com/cat_happiness.html)

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