A happy woman is like a ripe plum.

Are there any happy women out there? Even if she feels happy , it will be only for a very short while.

Woman's wants and needs are insatiable .They are insecure about their appearances, their careers,their future or anything you can think off. They continuously sow doubts about their abilities,performances and self worth.

They want to accomplish many things and discover that they cannot be everywhere . They want to be the perfect wife, mother and career women and be a good and naughty nymph at bedtime .

They found that they do not have the time , energy and space to do all those chores .As a result many are disappointed , unhappy, tired and stressed out. They took on more than they can chew.

Life is about living and is like a long train journey on Earth which never ends. There are many interesting new places to see and new things to do each day.

We cannot jump at warp speed from one destination to another . A long journey will take time and to really enjoy the journey , one must saviour every moment of it . Life will go on at it's own pace .

Why the rush to reach the end of the destinations?


Reference and thanks to :-

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1189064/What-YOUR-best-sex-decade-Five-women-reveal-age-lives-passionate.html

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Going back to the basics.

With the world's economy in a decline and depression on the doorsteps, many of us will have to re-examine our lifestyles and choose to go back to the basics.

We may have to cut off any excess fats and stay lean to survive this difficult period. Some of us may not have a choice but I give my respects and admiration's to this man .He chose to down size his lifestyle so that he could enjoy a better life with his family.

Peter Durose was a supermarket boss who made £250,000 per month excluding bonuses for Tesco and downsized for his own corner grocery shop and a much better family life .

Going back to the basics.The very type of grocery shops that those supermarkets are squeezing them out or make them redundant.

He chose the path of having less money but a more happier and meaningful family life.He switched from the fast lane to the slow lane and enjoy his new found freedom.He was his own boss and able to control his life and where he wanted to go .

Holding such a high position in an organization and getting highly paid is not without its price.You may have to pay a very high price for the fame or the money .

You will have no time for your family or loved ones.Even though you have a lot of money and can afford a lot of things which others cannot.

But having all those money but no life is not an ideal situation. One should seek a balance in life ,for life is not all about money . It is about sharing love and togetherness.

It is about the quality and the intangibles like love , kindness ,emotions and togetherness. You cannot put a price on those intangibles.



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A woman's right to choose

A pix of an unborn 23 weeks old foetus

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/columnists/columnists.html?in_article_id=481103&in_page_id=1772&in_author_id=463&in_check=N

Why shouldn't a woman has the right to choose an abortion if she wants it ?

Generally, most women think that it is their sole right to abort or not to abort the foetus. No one should tell her what to do or cannot do. This may sound like her fundamental right but there are other mitigating factors to consider.

The baby is in her body and depends on her for it's existence and no one else but what about the father and the unborn child? Do they have no right at all?

Is the child not another human being with a life ?Does the unborn child has no right to live ? Medical science have proven beyond doubt that the human embryo or foetus is biologically separate from its mother.It only depends on the mother for the food and warmth.Just like those children which depends on her for their food and shelter.

The law recognized that if a woman convict is pregnant she cannot be sentenced to death until the baby is born. The baby is innocent.

Why then do society allow a woman to have an abortion if they wanted it?Do they condone the killing of an innocent and young life ? Was it because they fear that the mothers would go to some back lane unqualified doctors which may harmed their health ?

In the UK , the Abortion act allows women to have a legal terminations at 24 weeks. At the moment , there is a majority of people in Britain who felt that abortion should not be made easier but more difficult to obtain. They felt that the limit should be brought down to 13 weeks.

Should the law be amended to this new limit?

At 23 weeks ,the baby can be born prematurely and can survived outside the womb, thanks to new and improved medical science.

We know that as early as 13 weeks, a foetus appears to yawn and rub their eyes; that at 15 weeks, they gain a sense of taste; that at 18 weeks they begin to hear (from Amanda Platell of the dailymail.uk.co.)

Getting an unwanted pregnancy is a woman’s worst fear.Even though you had taken precautions , it does happen sometimes because nothing is 100% guaranteed. If you are confirmed pregnant , your nightmares begins…

In the UK , you could go for an abortion even if it is 24 weeks old. In Malaysia, legalised abortion is only on certain conditions, results of rape or confirmed deformity of foetus by a doctor.

If you need an abortion , you will have to seek a doctor in the private practice and not the govt. hospitals.It is against the law and those caught will have their license suspended.

Some will visit those back lane and dubious qualified doctors to performed the abortions which can be dangerous to the mother’s life.

I think abortions should only be done when the mother is totally incapable of taking care of herself or her baby or the state does not have the facilities to provide and take care of them until the babies are born.

By providing an easy access to abortion as in the UK, many mothers will choose the easy way out of her predicaments and later regret for her decisions.Some used the abortions as a contraceptive method and have no regards whatsoever about the foetus.It is just unfortunate that they do not respect the sanctity of life

If it is more difficult for them to have abortions ,they may give birth and find that having a baby can be a joy .If they are unable to take care of them , they could put it up for adoptions. There are many childless couples who would gladly adopt them.

Before the baby is born , they may have a lot of fears but when the baby is born , they will find love and attachments to the little bundle of joy. God’s creations is majestic….

What’s life if you do not want your very own flesh ,blood and bones ?
How sad when you placed other things more important than your very own flesh and blood!

Some parents allow their young child to decide and many may not know the consequences of it or the lack of information's to help them to decide.They cannot make well informed decisions and will follow the general trend prevailing at that moment.

Society does not value parent hood but about financial success,exclusive lifestyles and good education.It is about getting a university degree and getting a high paying job and the baby will have to be sacrifice .

Yes ! You have the right to choose to abort but you will have to live with the guilt and the sentence all through out your life on Earth.


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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=481313&in_page_id=1879

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=481120&in_page_id=1770&in_poll_id=18368

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=465566&in_page_id=1879

What happens during an abortion.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=487377&in_page_id=1879

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Don't worry - Be happy !

You often wonder why you are so tired and exhausted before the end of the day ? Could it be your diet or you have been working too hard ?

If is it not , then you have worried too much and wasted too much brain energy over this unproductive activity. You should free your brain and use those resources to concentrate on your work.

Worrying is an unhealthy exercise and yet many people worry over everything and anything , especially woman.Worrying can overworked your brain cells and make them die faster.

They can also make you look sad and robbed you of your youthful and beautiful look.You may be 20 but you could looked like in the 40's.

When you worry too much , you will think too much and don't give your brains time to rest.When you think too much , you cannot sleep and have no peace. When you don't have enough sleep, you will find you will have many sleep deprivation sickness, headache, dizziness ,no appetite,, weak in body and mind.

Your mind will be consumed with worries and you wont be able to think straight and you will make wrong decisions or make plenty of mistakes. When you make mistakes or unable to decide, your productivity falls and this may affect those people around you.

Friends may avoid you because you may looked like a devil and nobody likes being in the company of a sad person. When you smile , the whole world smiles with you, when you cry , you will cry alone.

When you worry , it means that you don't trust and understand God. You have no faith in God.

You maybe genuinely concerned about it, but you should not worry. Worry only immobilized you as you cannot do anything about it.You may plan for tomorrow ,which is time well spent but worrying about tomorrow is time wasted.

Give God first place in your life and everything will fall into place.He knows what you need .Don't be anxious or worry about tomorrow or the future,.Live one day at a time.God will take care of tomorrow ..Quit worrying, because it wont make you live longer but may shorten your life.

Whenever I feel worried about something, I would give that burden to Jesus and trust that He will take care of it. I will say a little prayer and then stop worrying about it. If anything that is negative pops into my mind, I know it is not from God and I will not entertain it.The devil shoots his arrows at you if you allow him. Put on your armour of faith to defend against the devil.

Que ! Sera ! Sera !... What ever happens will happens .This is life..
Be happy and enjoy each day as it comes.

Mathews 6:25 to 6:34

Therefore I tell you ,stop being perpetually uneasy (anxious and worried ) about your life , what you shall eat, or what you shall drink, or about your body, what you shall put on.Is life not greater (in quality ) than food and the body (far above and more excellent ) than clothing? (The Amplified Bible)

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Where has the romance gone ?

Remember your first thrilling and on cloud nine romance?

How you fell in love with your hunky dory ,tall, dark and handsome beau? Now that you have married and have kids and life is so boring and a drudgery .

You feel that romance is absent or has waned and you recalled those happy and sweet memories when life was so carefree and he was romancing you.You were like two happy go lucky guys without a hitch in the world.


You want to energize and spice up your love life but don't know how to go about it or are directionless ,just bobbing neither here or there and just being carried away by the ocean currents where it wants.

You crave for those close intimacies, all those sweet nothings and his attentions and affections.Those wonderful sweet , euphoric feelings or sensations of being in love.

You want to seek a fresh purpose to the meaning of your marriage life which has become so dull and drab.The fire seems to have gone out or extinguished.

Though you may not be physically as beautiful as before and he is not as handsome as he used to be , you could still have some fun and fantasies in your life.You could recharge those dormant feelings and have a blast.

If you are just in love with your partner and have no romantic love, you will sense a feelings of emptiness, for you would have missed those wonderful and fascinating romantic thoughts and feelings.

Imaginations and fantasies are what makes our life interesting and pleasurable. If you have no romantic love and still don't know if it is love,that's is even more muddled and confused.

You would have to sit by the river banks and wait till the water subsides and see the stones at the bottom of the river bed.Then you would know whether it is love or not.

Time will tell and you need to be very patient.If you don't feel it, then it is not love. How to be romantic and have those happy and sensual feelings again?

The answer is very simple and yet many don't realize it.. Just fall in love again..!

You fall out of love and you need to go back in again using another door or the same door..Maybe you got to say 'Zam Zam ala Kazam!'and the magical door of the romance world opens to you.

Go to those intimate restaurants where the ambiance is conducive to kindle romantic feelings.You could also go to those parks or beaches to picnic, just the two of you.

Make him feel exuberant, enchanted and fascinated with you again .Love will bloom a second time ,when he hold's you in his strong arms and you radiate charmingly like the most beautiful orchid or rose .

The man should not stop wooing or chasing their spouse after they have married them. For it may be the end of their chase but it is the beginning for the women....

It is like a sweet dream.Time to go and do those never ending chores . If you don't get into the driver's seat, you will be forever stuck in that timeless black hole .You need to rev up your engines and don't let life pass you by.

Perhaps you could pray to the Goggle God and asked Him to lead you back into your Heavenly kingdom.

For further readings;

http://www.canadianliving.com/relationships/love/10_simple_ways_to_put_the_romance_back_into_your_relationship.php

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