Do you know why your wife has a low sex drive?.
You maybe married to a working or non working wife but many wives will not be in the mood for sex if they have to handle outside work and the household chores without any help from you.
Your mothers generation and their works ethics does not apply anymore.Women today is not as subservient and submissive as their mothers generations. Get it!
She feels cheated and angry and will not play ball with you .She is also human and need’s to be loved and pampered herself. She is no love machine where you can have sex at the pressed of a button on your remote..!
She will feel that life is very unfair that you don't lift a finger to help her heavy burdens and as a result she will have no inclinations to satisfy your needs as her needs are unattended by you. I scratched your back , you scratched mine.
You work and she works but why the household chores are solely her responsibilities? This is not fair to her in this modern era of woman’s equality.
Sex and house works are inter related for her . If she expands too much energy on housework, she will be sapped and zapped and have nothing left over for sex .
Don't blamed her. Put yourself in her position and do what she does and you will feel the same too.
In a study, it has been found that live in boyfriends who does more house works than husbands had more sex with their partners.
If the men were to do more house works like cleaning washing and cooking , it can be a turned on for women. Men doing housework is, evidently, a kind of aphrodisiac for women.
By doing more house works, you are telling her that you loved her and want to share your life with her. She feels loved in this way and will return you the favours later in the night.
The house is an extension of her personality . If you are not interested in the house, it means that you are not interested in her or love her.
She wont feel your love and women cannot have sex without love…or they wont enjoy the sex and it is just a chore .
You can try it and see the difference it will bring into your sex life and your wife’s. Your wife’s sex drive may increased and you may have to tell her…”Not tonight darling, I got a splitting headache!”…LOL!
Posted by Laura
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