Sunday, November 30, 2008

Why Men Dont Prefer Women High Flyers ?



Most women are brought up by the socio economic system to look for a husband who will earn higher than them and academically better qualified than them .

It is deeply ingrained in them to marry upwards. Women are more discerning about their mates and it is they that decides if the relationship can progress after the first ‘hello’ stage.

She would have no interest in a man if he earns less than her or academically lower than her.She is looking for a mate who is stronger emotionally and financially better than her.

She needs someone who can take good care of her and her children.A man may marry a young thing and a sex object while a women would not marry a man just for the sake of marriage and who would follow her like a kept poodle.

The modern women have achieved success in many fields but as they climbed higher in the social strata, they found that there were a shortage of qualified available men for them to choose from and as a result , many remained single .

Inorder for them to find a man , some had no choice but to hide their achievements and their incomes for fear of intimidating the men.

I think , the real reason why some of the high flying women cannot find a man is their character and attitude towards men.

They are not able to accept the traditional womens roles in the soceity anymore .These highly educated , emancipated, liberal and modern women have redefined the womens new role.

Compare them to those secretaries and clerks , they really know how to treat a man and know their places.
There are some high flying women who can juggle a career, family and home ,for women can multitask but it can place a greater strain on her resources.

There are some women who married down and have a happy life..Some men are able to accept that their wife are smarter and earn more than them. It is not a problem to them.

It is a dilemma for many career women , a career or the upbringing of the children.


Credit and thanks to;-

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/main.jhtml?xml=/education/2007/10/03/ftpay103.xml

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