Now in 2007,many women may pass through life without a man , without knowing what motherhood is all about and without tasting the sweet and the bitter of a married life, companionship ,men , sex and children.
God will have to come back to help those single women.Discard away all those old notions about marriage.
Hollywood hunk and heartthrob ,George Clooney tells Michelle Pfeiffer that he is not going to get married .This will break alot of girl’s heart.
A women is like a rose plant. It creates a beautiful scent when the roses blooms to attract the ‘bee’s’ to come and they together may create a majestic rose garden.
Many rose plants bloom by the roadsides , all alone without a gardener’s care and attentions and only the sunlight as their companions till the day they wilt and die when the time comes .They are so beautiful yet unappreciated and growing freely in the wilderness.
Many women continue to look for a mate till she is 90 or for as long as she lives.God created them for her role in the propagation of the human beings.It fulfills her destiny as a women.
Is there any women who say’s she will not want to get married?Maybe , she heard or seen too many horror stories about marriage or she got a bitter experience about men that she is turned off .
To remain in a world where there is no man in her life is a choice she does not want but being forced upon her.
It is not that they don't want a man in their life.Many tried but failed to find a suitable mate.They went everywhere ,where there are men but they only found jobs and a broken dream.
Are they more happy than their married sisters?
You can be happy if you are single or if you are married.
Happiness does not depend on whether you are married or not.
Only when you grow old will you realized that you are all alone in this world. For those who are married and have children and grandchildren to fall back on , it will be a bliss.
A women without a man can do more things than a married women.She may find many interest to occupy her and become some expert in some fields and to pursue her hobbies.
But all these may give her some comforts in life but no solace as motherhood is a strong instinct and remains unfulfilled.
If you are married be happy , if you are not married be happy also.For life is to live and enjoy whatever state you are in.
Posted by Laura
credit and thanks to
http://historymatters.gmu.edu/
suggested readings… written in 2001 but still relevant ?
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/
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