She Earns More Than Him …

It used to be him earning more than her but the wheels are slowly turning on man and there are now ,more women earning more than the man.

Will the traditional marriage concept fade into oblivion? As men will have to get used to the idea that women are a potent force and are here to stay .

In some marriages, the woman’s career may upshot the man’s and may make more money than him.He could be delegated to the backseat or he could become a ‘kept’ man .


They will have to make some readjustments in their life and outlook or to go separate ways.

There should not be any unilateral actions but must involve a consensus between them for a peaceful ,good and lasting marriage.

With girls ,60% in universities, there will come a time when she will make more than him or they are already at the threshold.

More than 40 % of married women in the UK are making more than their husbands.

How would they cope and what are their problems they faced.

The man do not have a choice , their wives are better and more brilliant than them . They will have to give their full support and co-operations to their partners.

As the women become more active , he would have to be passive for if both are very active in their own fields like those Hollywood film stars , there would be tremendous strains on the relationship.

Even if she makes more than him , a man still expects his wife to play the traditional role of wife , mother and house keeper.
It is her domains.

Perhaps it is the women who have too high expectations of everything in the marriage. Women have a certain standards about everything that must be done according to their ways and many men may not meet those standards.

It is a matter of perceptions and women are quite meticulous with small things around the house.Most women generally are not satisfied with the way men do things around them and they will do it themselves.

They become the wife , mother and bread winner and still have to do some of the household chores even when they have servants . They may have to supervise the servants and cannot depend on the man.

The man’s fragile ego’s may take a bashing as in some society, it can be a loss of face .It is still a man’s world on the outside.

They work really hard and earn lots of money but have to be very careful about not offending the male ego.’

They cannot proudly boast about their incomes and must still submit to their husbands.There will be a war of the sexes and usually whoever earns more will come out the victorious and dominant partner and the other will have to surrender under her terms..LOL!

Some men may not speak about it but deep down they are apprehensive that their wives are working in the office and are afraid of those office vultures that may prey on her.

Wives who make more may not have time for their man and some of them may keep mistress or have affairs.

There are other men who do not mind their wives earning more than them . They may become househusbands or a consort to her..LOL!.He will be his bodyguard, driver, secretary and her toy boy.

It is his good fortune to find such a woman.

Posted by Laura

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