The Modern Women And The Miranda Complex .

In the year 2007 ,the war of the sexes will be won anytime soon and the outcome is predictable.The men will surrender and play a secondary role and women will rule the world inside and out.

The relentless march of the women into the man’s enclave ,once the domains of the males only have crumbled.

Women are everywhere working with men under the same conditions.Women are better qualified with degrees and can do multitasking.

A 2005 census data of woman’s incomes revealed that women in their 20’s are earning more than the men.Women continue to do well in the colleges and universities .Soon , they will monopolize all those top and higher paying jobs.
 
How does that affect the men? They will be pushed back and have to accept women as their equals and in some cases , the women will become the major partner.

This generation will rule the world in time to come ,when the present generation pass away.Women now have the added financial clout and this has made their arsenal complete.

Previously women had the sex weapon and men their finance. Now women have both the weapons and the woman’s weapons are bigger than the man's…LOL!

The women are always never wrong.They could switch their roles from the modern day women and back to the traditional day women whenever it suits them or to their advantage.

Even when she makes more than him , she still expects him to pay for the date, or in some societies, going Dutch.

If she is married, she expects him to pay all the bills ,while her salary is only for her to lavish on herself.She will only contribute when he is unable to do so.

Many successful women unable to find the right mates , are hiding their large incomes, accomplishments, academic excellence for fear of intimidating their potential boyfriends.They may scared them away.

In order for them to find a mate , they will have to pretend to be a simple and dumb women or a bimbo or pretend to play the traditional women’s role.This is known as the Miranda complex. It was named after the high-flying Sex and the City lawyer Miranda who had an on-off slacker boyfriend.

They should not out talk or out shine the men or it will be a faux pas.After marriage , it is another equation. The men will have to accept who she is unless they want out .

Young women with powerful jobs and good incomes find themselves being punished for their success by a withdrawal of the male approval. This explains why many high flying young women cannot find mates.

The males have a very fragile ego and if he were to learned that she makes more than him , he will feel intimidated and scary and will withdraw to seek another prey.

He will wonder if he is able to support a guzzling high fuel sports car and the high maintenance that goes with it.

He has been ingrained with the concept of men the provider and not being able to provide enough for her can bruised his ego and make him a lesser man.

The growing spending power of the women can be awesome. Majority of women are spenders, their needs are insatiable.They spend more than men.

Can the male ego cope with the emasculating strain of being outperformed and out-spent by the fast rising women professionals?

The men has not evolved as quickly as the women and have much more deep-rooted male prejudices. Those men are defending their bastions of male supremacy or a patriachial soceity.It wont be long before the fortress walls collapse.

Can or cannot is no more the answer for the women is doing a man’s job and it is time the men will have to become more domesticated..LOL!

There is a price to pay, for as the women becomes more financially independent , they assimilate the male traits of aggressiveness and competitiveness and wanting to control others. They lose out on their feminine qualities.

The modern women can get anything they desire without the men’s help. Men has become irrelevant .The female supremacy is taking over the new world.

The new world order is at their thresholds.

Posted by Laura

credit and thanks to:-

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article2602592.ece

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/us_and_americas/article2558279.ece

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