Is Your Spouse having A Cyber Affair ?

Do you think a cyber affair is harmless? I think most women would rather
agree that a cyber affair is a no-no.

It is a dangerous precedent if they agree.Having a cyber affair is bad for
your marriage health and can destroy your marriage .

The person involved in a cyber affair may tell you it is a harmless affair
and he can switch off anytime when s/he wants.

They do not realize that they are dealing with the powerful emotional forces
which they have never experienced before.

It is like playing with the devil and the devil is a very crafty fella. He
will bait you till you fall into his trap.

A fire when small can easily be control but if it becomes a raging bush
fire, then your house will burn down.

If they do not take any preemptive steps, their spouse may fly away or lured
away by a raven.Crying would be useless by then as the bird has flown.

Your spouse will not tell you that he is having a cyber affair.Affairs are
always secret and that is the thrill.Stolen kisses are always sweeter.

There are many reasons why cyber affairs happen.It does not happen over
night.Affairs take time to develop and if you were too busy with work
inside and outside and did not take notice of his change in behaviour , you
have only yourself to blame.

There are signs which you can detect when you spouse is having a cyber
affair.All the tips from this link..

http://marriage.about.com/library/howto/htcyberaffair.htm

Once you have the proof, it is time to act to preserve your marriage. You
need to confront him .Don't ignore those red warning lights flashing.

If you go through too many red lights, your marriage might be in
jeopardy.Give him the summons and jail him if he does not pay.

Dont wait for one day when out of the blues, he suddenly ask you for a
divorce.You must confront the issue head on if you still love your spouse.

He is caught in the web of another she spider and he may need your help to
get out.It is easy to fall in but very difficult to quit.
Cyber affairs can happen to women too.Be vigilant!

Posted by Laura

credit and thanks to

http://marriage.about.com/library/howto/htcyberaffair.htm

http://www.50plus.com/display.cfm?libraryID=112&cabinetID=369&documentID=16798

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