If you want to win a girl's heart...

If you want to win a girl's heart, you do not have to shower her with expensive gifts, flowers or fold 100 or 1000 paper cranes or stars . If she is fond of you and is attracted to you , she does not expect any presents from you. You may give her some meaningful token gifts which is not expensive in nature .

What she likes about you is the intangible gifts that you have. Your confidence, manners, attentions, charms and the ability to make her feel good about herself.

You do not have to impress her with any expensive presents.Sending expensive gifts is a waste of money and it does not serve the purpose. If she is not into you , she is simply not into you.She is not your type of girl .Better to give it up early than to waste your time , money and efforts.

Sending her expensive gifts can show that you are trying too hard to catch her eye.
She may even be suspicious of you and your intentions. If she is not interested in you , she does not want to have anything to do with you except as platonic friends only.She may also perceived your gifts as a bribe to change her mind about you .

There are some men who think that they can sway the girls by being generous and lavishing all kinds of gifts to them.If they are good girls and have no interest in him , they will return his gifts but if they are bad ones, they will just gobbled them up and expect for more.

Today's young girls wanna have fun. They will be on a look out for those 'suai-yee's '(Cantonese term for terrapins or dumb guys)

If she accepts your gift but does not respond in kind, then you know you are up against a gold digger. You become her cabbage .She will chop a big chunk out of you if you are not wise enough to recognize her kind. When you cannot feed their habits, they will dump you and look for another.

It is only when you have won her heart and assured of her love for you , you can then invest heavily in her .It shows how much you love her and value her, for actions speak louder than words.



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Free wonderful gifts that will win any woman's heart.

You do not have to spend an exorbitant amount to buy these gifts to win your WAG's heart.They cost you nothing and the results is fantastic beyond belief. Try it and you will find that your relationship will zoom off to the moon or the stars.

THE GIFT OF LISTENING.

Anybody can listen but knowing what she wants or what she mean's is another different thing. You can always ask her or probe her if you do not understand.She will not mind .You not only have to listen attentively but must also be seen to understand her feelings.

When she talks to you , look her in the eyes and not on her heaving chest.You may get motion sickness and nothing she said will be understood by your brain.

You cannot be seen reading the papers or watching T.V while listening.You got to be all ears without any distractions .

Many men don't really pay much attention or really listen when their wife speaks.They cannot give 100% to her.They need to force upon themselves to really listen like when they listen to the children speak.Wife too need that kind of attentions.

Sometimes , you cannot blame the men because some women ramble on too much and there are mountains of verbose and after sometime, you tend to just pretend to hear while your mind is thinking of other things or somewhere else.

THE GIFT OF AFFECTION

When you have it , you tend not to pay much attention to it. You take them for granted. It is only when someone is gone , you realized that you should have been much more affectionate or appreciate that person better.

You think life is forever but no one knows when we will die or how long we live. Everyday give hugs ,kisses and touch them because if suddenly they are gone, you wont be able to give anymore.

THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER

Life is very stressful for many, try to laugh and joke and this helps to reduce stress and make them more happy.Laughter is good medicine. Have friends or visit friends together and this would make life more interesting.

Your spouse and your friends are different .It is just like a multi vitamin.Your friends complement your diets. Too much of one kind is not good for your health.

THE GIFT OF A WRITTEN NOTE

Written notes are precious for they are everlasting and they can be read and reread .You should write those love notes more often and place them secretly in those places where she frequents.

A love letter would be great but many men don't write love letters after they are married .This is old fashion but in your own natural handwriting , it has a sentimental value.

THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT

Flattery opens many doors.Women loved to be flattered more than men. Do you feel good when someone compliments you? That's why you need to give more compliments than criticisms or complaints. Giving positive compliments makes the world a better living place.

THE GIFT OF A FAVOR

In the home, if you see something is not right or a job not done , you should handle it and don't complain even if it is her duty .

Offer to wash the dishes or mop the floor if you don't have maids. Don't be like a chauvanistic man and think this is below your manhood to mop floors or washed dishes or clothes.

Help to lightened her daily loads.You will show that you love her.Don't take her for granted. Learn to cook too for sometimes she may not be in the mood or unwell or need a rest .

THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE

When she wants to do her womanly things .Allow her the freedom and encourage her to have friends. Friends can make her feel better. Some man don't like their wife to mixed around because they will learn new things which can affect the family. Or they are afraid their wife will be up to no good or get conned by cassanova's .Many man then frowned upon their wife's activities outside the home.

THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION

A cheerful face is a happy face.Don't be affected by life's problems. There will always be problems in life.Life without problems is not challenging..Look at life's problems with a cheerful dispositions. Most problems are just molehills and not mountains as you perceived them.

Give all your worries and problems to Jesus if you cannot carry the burdens or if they are too heavy for you.

You may not afford to give her diamonds but these gifts are more precious than diamonds.They will ensure that your love will follow you to the end of the world with you ,even if you subsist on just plain bread and water.

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