If you want to win a girl's heart, you do not have to shower her with expensive gifts, flowers or fold 100 or 1000 paper cranes or stars . If she is fond of you and is attracted to you , she does not expect any presents from you. You may give her some meaningful token gifts which is not expensive in nature .
What she likes about you is the intangible gifts that you have. Your confidence, manners, attentions, charms and the ability to make her feel good about herself.
You do not have to impress her with any expensive presents.Sending expensive gifts is a waste of money and it does not serve the purpose. If she is not into you , she is simply not into you.She is not your type of girl .Better to give it up early than to waste your time , money and efforts.
Sending her expensive gifts can show that you are trying too hard to catch her eye.
She may even be suspicious of you and your intentions. If she is not interested in you , she does not want to have anything to do with you except as platonic friends only.She may also perceived your gifts as a bribe to change her mind about you .
There are some men who think that they can sway the girls by being generous and lavishing all kinds of gifts to them.If they are good girls and have no interest in him , they will return his gifts but if they are bad ones, they will just gobbled them up and expect for more.
Today's young girls wanna have fun. They will be on a look out for those 'suai-yee's '(Cantonese term for terrapins or dumb guys)
If she accepts your gift but does not respond in kind, then you know you are up against a gold digger. You become her cabbage .She will chop a big chunk out of you if you are not wise enough to recognize her kind. When you cannot feed their habits, they will dump you and look for another.
It is only when you have won her heart and assured of her love for you , you can then invest heavily in her .It shows how much you love her and value her, for actions speak louder than words.
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Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Old friends are like fine wine
All men have their frailties and whoever looks for a friend without imperfections,will never find what he seeks.We love ourselves notwithstanding our faults and we ought to love our friends in like manner -Cyrus
No man is an island by itself.As we go through life , friends come and go.Some would come and leave their footprints in the sands .When the waves come , they will be gone without any traces.Some would leave their footprints in our hearts and cast in stones forever.They may be gone but their friendship will always be remembered.
Friends comes in many shapes and sizes.We have from the very casual friends we meet everyday to our long time very intimate and close friends ,where we share every secrets with each other.
A true friend is very hard to find.One who holds fast to u no matter what happens come summer or winter .Such friends are rare and precious.Treasure them because they are like gems.A true friend is a gift from God.
A friend is never judgmental.He will love you for what and who you are.He is always there when you need him.When you fall down , he will be there to pick you up.He will lend his shoulders for you to cry on and wipe your tears and comforts your soul.
In this era, we make many friends in the internet.Some net friends you will meet them in real life while some you will only know them through this medium.Some of them may meet and find their soul mates.
The internet friends could be close to our hearts as we talk and communicate daily and it is like we know them for a long time even if we had never set eyes on each other.
They may live in another continent or on the other side of the world.With the advent of the internet,we can have friends all over the world and we can just sit in the comfort of our homes to talk to them.The pc becomes the window to the world,keep your light of friendship burning forever
When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults or mistakes.You know you are not perfect and you don't expect perfections from others . Instead, you accept the faults and you overlook the excuses.
Never abandon an old friend or you will never find anyone who can replace him. Friendship is like wine; it gets better as it age or grow older.
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- The road to eternity is never ending and as we travel on this journey through Earth, we should enjoy each day as it comes .It is not about who you are but what you can do to enrich others life. "To know God is love" blog was created on 29th. June 2009
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