Is having sex too early , good or bad ?

Today , you will find that the teens are engaging in sex at a very early age. The younger generations may not see eye to eye with the older generations about sex.

Perceptions have changed and more and more are doing it without any conscience about the morality or impropriety because it has become the norm in the new millennium.

People who start having sex at a younger age appear to be at greater risk of developing sexual health problems later in life.

For the men , it could be erectile dysfunction, difficulty in maintaining an erection or orgasm.

On the average, most teens have sex at around 15 to 18 .Those who had sex at 14 and below were early starters.

Those who started relatively young would have many sexual partners and run the risk of those sexually transmitted diseases (STD)

The computer age, sexual exploitations of those media and the widespread availability of porn in the internet and DVD's are the major causes in the sexual adventurism of the young.

After getting together for a few days or some on their first date,they are doing it on a regular basis without any thoughts about their future.They are too young and immature to grasp the meaning of life and cannot even support themselves financially and must still depend on their parents help.

It is only a matter of time when they get pregnant or acquired STD's and then their world will fall apart. Will they decide to keep the baby or to abort. Such a big decision can be catastrophic to the child and to the parents.

Having the baby can keep the mother off from school or delay her educational process. Choosing abortion would end a young and innocent life.Abortions can have deep psychological and mental effects to her future well being. They are caught between the rock and the deep blue sea.

Their bodies may have matured physically but mentally , they are still kids and are not aware of the consequences from a mental , emotional and psychological perspective.

Generally, most of them do not know much about STD's or conception. They may learn some from the internet or from the gutters about sex.

They learn the hard way, when they get pregnant or have those STD"s. They do not practice safe sex or are unaware of how to protect themselves from those STD's or pregnancy.

Sex may have different connotations to different people. To me , sex is the height of one's love and affections towards each other . There is the emotional and mental relationship which brings two people closer together , a deep commitment like a marriage .Today , the term 'casual sex' is very common. There are f*ck buddies or friends with benefits (FWB)

If a relationship is not on a strong footing, sex may alter the equations. Sex can destroy a great friendship because you would view your friend in another light. You cannot be mere friends or a platonic friend anymore.

It is definitely bad if they are too young to understand the real meaning why people have sex , it's purpose and the responsibilities it entails.

"If we are only friends, why do you kiss me.....?"