It is no more shocking to read those news. The age of sex has crept lower and lower and it is a sign of the times.The attitudes and values about sex has changed .
The media's portrayal of sex , the easy availability of sex from the internet and their busy parents are the some of the reasons for the change in the outlook and norms .
Those young girls are experiencing sex at an earlier age because of a change in attitude towards virginity.Virginity is no more an honour but a burden and they are in a hurry to lose their virginity to any guy.
The younger generations do not think highly of virginity and if they are still virgin by 15, she would be considered uncool or not the 'in' crowd. She maybe shunned from her group and some girls would lie about losing their virginity.
Having sex even if consensual is statutory rape under the law. Most of the girls have sex with their casual friends or boyfriends and some of them are about the same age.
The punishment is not the same depending on the man's age. If they are the same age or 2 years older, the man is fined , send to reform school , given probation or sometimes jailed.
The sentence is severe if the man is much older, he maybe jailed longer(18 to 20 years) and given six strokes of the cane.Even if the girls consented or lie about their age.
The underage girl is not punished as she is considered a minor and not responsible for her actions. She may lie about her age and in that heated moment , the men may not bother to check.
Those underage girls are engaging in unsafe sex and as a result they became pregnant or infected with STI's. Most of those girls do not understand the consequences or the responsibilities of their sexual exploits.
It is not entirely their fault because parents are too busy with their jobs and left their children to their own devices or under the care of their grandparents or maids.
The parents did not pay much attention to their daughters activities and those young girls have a tendency to lie about their activities from their parents.
Parents will have to get more involved in their teen's life and monitor their activities.It is the time when they require more attentions and love. When they don't get them , they will seek outside and from any man who would give them.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.asiaone.com/News/Education/Story/A1Story20090807-159817.html
Saturday, August 8, 2009
More girls aged below 14 are having sex.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Forced to perform sexual acts with her husband's friends while he watched.
Sometimes, she performs with her husband's friend while he watched on the sideline and other times they performed together while his friend watched. Maybe, they even had a threesome on some occasions.
Oh! What a wicked society this world has become!
Their world came crushing down when the woman got tired of it and reported to the police about their going on.
Why did she only come out in the open after four long years ?
The idea of asking your wife to have sex with your friend is repugnant and repulsive. She is not a commodity where you can trade her services. There is something not right if she agrees to do as she is told.
It is not just a simple matter to do the sexual act like those animals and act like nothing happens after.There are complex issues to over come as women are wired differently.
The emotional,mental and psychological issues may weigh heavily on the women and affect their future relationship.It is like letting the green and evil demons out from the dark dungeons and there is no knowing what havoc they will create.
There are some circumstances where the women are forced to have sex with those loan sharks when her husband cannot repay his debts or owe debts to others because of his addiction to gambling.
Some low life men may even pimp their wives and live off their immoral earnings.
It is very degrading to the women and no women should be forced to do what she does not want.
In some societies,like the Eskimo's, their women welcome guest to their home by sleeping with them .
There are free thinking couples who willingly or one of them being coerced to go to those swing parties.It could be the man or the woman who initiate the sexual exploits.
Some of them may have a dull sex life or their marriage is in a rut and wanted to spice up their sex life by going to those swing parties or having a friend for a threesome.
It maybe fun and exciting but the after effects may be very bitter.Whether one is forced or a willing participant, the end result does not auger well for that relationship.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://tnp.sg/news/story/0,4136,208947,00.html
Monday, July 27, 2009
Women, unusual sex and black magic .
In this modern times, do you believe that the devil can have carnal intercourse with a woman ?
Whether it is a myth or fact, it is believed that some angels secretly left Heaven for Earth to disguise themselves as men and have sex with the women and they were discovered and banished from Heaven. They were fallen angels and Earth became their abode.
There are a lot of people who believed in black magic ,especially people from Malaysia, Thailand and other countries. They believed some people have those powers to call upon those dark evil forces to do their bidding's.Some followers of these occult even rear those spirits to look after their house or properties.
Two women have filed for divorce on grounds that their husbands' unusual sex drive is linked to black magic. Having sex more than 10 times a day is very unusual and abnormal!
Either you have got a very strange and abnormal ailment or you are demonically possessed with those supernatural strengths.
They found the riddle to his unusual sex drive. There were two of them! How is this possible and why they did not detain the other person is a mystery.
Those men must have dealt in black magic according to those people. When they discovered the other person , it must have disappeared into the thin air.
Were there devil or devils who took turns having sex with those two women ?
Having sex for more than 10 times a day is no easy feat.There is definitely something fishy and supernatural about those two men. Pity those poor women who did not know what they got into .
Reference and thanks to :-
http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne%2BNews/Malaysia/Story/A1Story20090727-157272.html
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Sex with a younger woman is a perfect recipe for keeping men healthy and fit ?
The simple way to keep men healthy is to have sex daily , especially with a younger woman ! Not every man will be able to follow this prescription. The majority will still have to take their high blood pressure pills, their chlorestrol pills and their multivitamin pills and exercise daily.
This is like a dream come true but how many men in their twilight years can have sex everyday? No fears ! There is now the Viagra tablet to perk him up and continue his amorous lifestyle.
It is simple to say that having sex daily can make men healthy. Before you can have sex, you need the energy and fitness to have sex. It is like the chicken comes first or the egg comes first argument ?
If you are not fit and healthy , you cannot enjoy your sex. Another school of thoughts says, you need to be healthy to enjoy sex.
In order to have sex daily , you will need to eat right, exercise regularly,relax and have enough sleep. You need to feel mentally and physically fit and then you will feel good about everything including sex. There is no shortcut to health by just having daily sex and ignoring all those other factors.
You may have to use drugs to sustain the pace and the daily sex may either spur you to keep fit or it will drag you down the over exertion road and the end result is a spent and lifeless lump of flesh .You may even suffer a heart attack.
Your brain is the most important sex organ. If it is not well taken care off, you won't be able to perform or feel good about anything.
Want to feel happy , healthy and erotic?
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=55996
http://www.news.com.au/dailytelegraph/story/0,22049,25736322-5006007,00.html
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Bra's for MEN !
Whoever said that bra's are only for women ? Some men have breast too and sometimes even bigger than their girlfriends !
Adolescent boys and middle-aged men sometimes develop breasts which is called, 'Moobs.'Some of them elect surgery to reduce their breasts .
Would you date or accept a man who wears a bra?
This is just a hypothetical question as many average Joe would not dare to wear one openly except in the country of Japan. It may be gaining in popularity in some other countries .
Only those transgenders and transvestite would be willing to wear a bra because they perceived themselves as females.The other group are the cross dressers who have a fetish for woman's lingerie . Those hot blooded males would off course not want to be associated with them.
In Japan,a bra made especially for men is taking the country by storm. Men who wear bras are known as "Bra-o", which means "Bra men".In some places, they have coined a new name for it , 'Bro for men.'
The bra's are available in a choice of white, pink and black and retail for around £20. They are all A cup size with chest size ranging from 32ins to 38ins.
Wearing the bra can relieve stress and make the guys feel kinder, gentler, more receptive .(more feminine? )Perhaps, they may feel more sexy too..LOL!
Do you think it is cute or a turn off ?
You maybe able to accept him in the confines of the privacy of your home but what about your friends? That can be a sticky matter.
What is it like for a man to wear a bra?
If you have never worn a bra in your life, you would not know how it feels like?
Wearing a bra can make you feel like you are being perpetually hugged and gives you those same feelings.That is if they are nicely fitted or you will find much discomfort with those too loose or too tight straps. There are many kinds of bra's.
The functions of those male bra's are different from the female bra's ,they typically flatten rather than lift them up .Some men who have large breasts as a result of obesity, muscular development, or gynecomastia may choose to wear a brassiere to provide support for their breasts and to flatten their appearance.
Men with larger than usual breast may find it painful if they are involved in vigorous sports . Their breast may swing to extremes and cause pain to them.
There is sometimes no medical necessity for men to wear bra's just like some women.It is more of a fashion and a trend.
Is our society ready for this trend ?
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/2529545/A-bra-for-men-is-the-new-hot-item.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male_bra
http://inventorspot.com/articles/mens_premium_bra_offers_hope_japans_overly_endowed_20078
http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_3396061.html
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
He is a teacher, gigolo and brothel manager.
He is a school games master , a gigolo and runs a brothel with his wife.What a life !While selling your body for money is not illegal in England, profiting from prostitution is.
His secret came out in the open during a police probe into illegal sex-trafficking from Eastern Europe in that red light district.
Being a respectable teacher, he should know the consequences of mixing those jobs together.You either have to choose one or the other.After he was exposed, he had to leave the teaching profession.
Why did he turn to vice?
We won't know the actual reasons but the lure of the cash and the excitements was too tempting for him and his wife was an expert in that field.
His wife has been a prostitute since she was 16.I am sure that he knew what she was doing before he married her.It is admirable that he married a hooker but her dark world done him in .
Profiting from prostitution even though the girls are willing is against the law .He may have provided the safety and the amenities for those hookers but if there is no law for legalized prostitution then he has broken the law. In some countries where prostitution is legalized, then it is not an offense.
For those who intent to moonlight as a social escort or a part time hooker/gigolo,you better count the cost because you cannot have a foot in the respectable world and another foot in the deep and murky cesspool.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1197890/PE-teacher-wife-face-jail-running-brothel-service.html
Sunday, July 5, 2009
Students rampage and terrorize teacher at his home
10 secondary school students went on a rampage at their teacher's house , terrorized the teacher and damaged two cars. The group of Form Three students wanted to exact revenge because a classmate was caned by the teacher earlier in the day.
Those students went to the teacher's house and challenged the teacher to come out.What were their intentions? Were they there to warn the teacher or to challenge the teacher to a fight or give him back the same medicine?
Their behaviour was unruly or they were known bad boys in the school and the teacher did not come out to meet them. When they were ignored, they began to issue threats and climbed over the wall into the porch and damaged the two cars with stones .
It is a sad event and showed the failure of the system to imposed discipline on those wayward students. Being a disciplinary teacher can be a dangerous vocation judging by this latest actions .Teacher's car being splashed with paint or acid and scratched is quite common.
I hope the authorities would take the appropriate actions to prevent and deter such incidents. Canning may not be appropriate in the present times.Counseling and finally expulsion or suspension would be more effective if the student have a disciplinary record
Reference and thanks to :-
http://news.asiaone.com/News/Education/Story/A1Story20090628-151348.html
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Male robber became sex slave to female hairstylist !
Can you imagine this situation where a male robber intending to rob a hair saloon of the day's takings but instead he was captured and turned into a sex slave by the female hairstylist.He met his match and got more than he bargained for . Should he complain?
It sounds like a sexual fantasy of some men or a storyline in a porn DVD. Who would imagine such a scenario to happen in real life ? It is really shocking that women are capable of such acts and turning the tables on the men.
Probably he is too good looking or the hairstylist is a sex pervert wanting to extract some form of punishment.This is a highly unusual news .I don't know whether to believe this story or not .
This unusual case happened in Russia where another 'weird' case of a woman who raped men by inviting them back to her place and drugging them . What's happening to the women of that country ?
The young hairdresser in Kaluga, Central Russia, locked the robber who tried to steal her money in the basement of the beauty salon and she raped him for three days.He was her prisoner and a sex slave at her bidding's.
She forced him to take several Viagra to maintain his hardness and his frenulum of his penis was torn.Possibly too much sex or too rough treatment on that poor guy ! He was probably sexually tortured and abused and he is lucky he still had his tool intact.
She released him ,bought new jeans for him ,gave him some money and it would look like the matter was settled.
He instead filed a report against her and in response to his report, she reported him for robbery. Now, both of them are charged in court .What's going to happen ?Will both be send to jail ?
Reference and thanks to :-
http://mosnews.com/society/2009/04/14/1013/
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Girl Who Doesn't Age..
Brooke Greenberg turned 16 in January. Though she is 16 years old, her physical size and mental capacity has not grown or develop but remain as a toddler. She is about 16lbs and 30 inches.The are many documented instances of children who fail to grow or develop in some way.
If you meet her , you would not understand that she is 16 year's old.Her mother has given up explaining.She doesn't speak, but she laughs when she is happy, and she clearly recognizes the people around her. She looks like a 6-month-old, but she kind of has a personality of a 16-year-old.
She is a unique case. It is like time stood still for her and she is forever stuck in that time warp.Doctors and scientist are puzzled and cannot explain this phenomenon.Nobody knows why and how ?
Will she be forever as she is and how long will she lives? What is her secret ?These are questions , no one knows. Scientists may try to uncover the secrets of aging and find the formula to prevent aging and lives longer.
Her family revolves around her and she is well loved and taken care by them. She was born that way and there is nothing much one can do to change her circumstances.They have learnt to accept her and treat her with much love and care.
Reference and thanks to:-
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/Health/story?id=7880954&page=1
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Children forced to live in a 'hellish' rubbish dump like home.
You cannot imagine anyone living in that squalid,insanitary and filthy surroundings. It is even worst than a rat nest .The house was knee deep in rubbish and filth and the children were dirty and unkempt.I don't know how the parents can keep their three little children in such a 'hellish' hole !
Go and see for yourself those grim pictures and you will have great revulsion at the squalid, filthy and inhuman living conditions.
The youngsters, aged one, three and four, were kept inside day and night by their cruel parents and forced to play among the filth and rubbish piled high in every room.
The stench was unbearable and the house was littered with rotting food and human excrement. They even covered every windows and kept the house dark from praying eyes.Everything sucks in that house.
Why do they keep all those rubbish in the house?
I don't know their real reasons. Maybe it is because of their 'Bin' laws in their country and they do not want to pay or unable to pay for the disposal of all those rubbish.
Don't they have any common sense and knowledge that an unhealthy surrounding can breed germs and make them sick.Where is their sense of decency ? Surely there must be a way to dispose of those unwanted rubbish.
The children was rescued from that shit hole and their parents, the 26-year-old man and 25-year-old woman were jailed for three years.
What they did was totally incomprehensible?
The unemployed father suffered from anxiety and a fear of open spaces and that probably is the reason for living in that squalid conditions.
Reports from two paediatricians revealed the children showed a ‘developmental delay’ with an aversion to washing and language problems. That is the result of living in isolation and lacking the parental care and attentions.
Now that the children are placed under the state, I hope they will have a chance to grow up in a proper surrounding and given the proper due care.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1194779/Childrens-life-hell-hole-Parents-jailed-rubbish-tip-home.html
Monday, June 22, 2009
Sicko Voyeur taking upskirt pix in hypermarkets and bookshops.
These people are sicko's who use the latest technology in mini spy cameras to catch the view of a woman's up skirt.It is an offense for outraging the modesty of a female and you can be fined or jailed or both.
With today's technology and cell phone cameras,no one is safe. Your most private moments maybe captured on somebody's camera or video. You will need to be extra careful in whatever you do .Even good friends may do it to you and you cannot trust anyone these days.
The next time you wear short skirts and go to hypermarkets, bookshops or any public places, be vigilant of strangers or friends who stand too close to you. I hope this will not make everyone of us paranoid .
There are at least nine pictures allegedly taken up the skirts of women in the country and have been widely circulated via the Internet recently. There could be more and probably in hundreds unless this sicko is caught.
All the women who had their pictures taken were obviously too engrossed in either reading books or looking for groceries.
You may ask , What is the hell wrong with these guys?'Have they not seen bikini women before ?
It is believed that the voyeur could have fixed a pinhole camera to his shoes or use a hidden camera in a bag before snapping the pictures by standing next to his unsuspecting victims.
The voyeur can be anyone ,even professional people who looks nice and decent on the outside but are perverts and have a warped mind inside.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://digital.asiaone.com/Digital/News/Story/A1Story20090621-149863.html
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Russian woman is a serial man rapist !
She is a young, quiet and quite good looking Russian woman. She gets acquainted with the men ,invites her victims back to her place , sedates them with clonidine .After that she undressed her victims and raped them., tightening a rope on their male organs to keep them erect.
When the victims wake up in the hospital, all they could remember was a friendly brunette who gave them drinks. If she uses those odourless and colourless date rape drug, they would not remember anything.
This is certainly extraordinary news. She is a devoted collector of horror films and spiders and could explain her extraordinary circumstances. Inviting the men like the spider telling the fly to come into her parlour. Then injecting her poison into the victim and eating them.
She is kind of weird and prefer such kinky sex where the men lie motionless like dead . She could have been bitten by those spiders and transformed into a spider women..LOL!
I am sure with her physical attributes, she could just invite those men back to her house or hotel room and have sex. Those men who accepted her invitations would probably guess what her intentions were.
Maybe, she is afraid of rejections or the men may get out of control.Whatever her reasons, she finds it better when the men are docile and under her control .
Some men may not object to being raped this way.Their only regret is that they slept though out the ordeal and do not feel any pleasure at all, just the after effects of those drugs and the trauma of it.
There are cases where those rich women who have everything in the world and they would go looking for sex with those tough looking trailer drivers in those stop and rest joints along the highways. It is bizarre but I guess they were not satisfied with their riches and mundane life. They wanted to spice up and live an extreme life.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://mosnews.com/weird/2009/06/18/blackwidow/?/456
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
A smile makes a woman more attractive than wearing makeups !
Smile! Smile! Smile! And the world smiles with you.A smiling face of a woman is more attractive than the sultry pose of a woman with make ups. A Mona Lisa smile would send those guys tingling in their heads...LOL! WOW! She smiles bewitchingly!
A smile does not cost you anything. You only have to twitch a few face muscles and you can spread the warmth, generate those strong electrical impulses and send them bolting like lightning strikes to your target.
You will instantly transform into the most beautiful woman at that place and time. The more you smile, the more you will exercise your face muscles and be able to fight aging.
You will also elicit the best response from the other person.
If you have a sultry pose and not a grin , you would appear to be moody or uninterested to the men.
A study by Orbit Complete for National Smile Month, has revealed nearly 70 per cent find women more attractive when they smile than when they wear make-up. No need to waste your hard earned money to buy those cosmetics.
Use those make ups only on very special occasions so that he will realize that you are a sparkling gem when you are bedecked with those magical dust. If you put it on everyday, he would take you for granted and there will be nothing very special about you anymore.
Why are you wearing makeups?
Is it not to present yourself in the best looking self ? You may think you are just plain looking or have imperfections which need to cover up. It is not about your looks but your confidence. If you are confident, you will have that kind of look which is very appealing to the opposite sex.
You should not be too self conscious about what other people will think of you .Be natural and smiles always.
Don't you think women are more attractive without their make ups?
Make ups can accentuate certain features but if you are going to spend 24 hours together, it is better to be who you are...
Some women will need to have makeups because it is like a clutch to them. They will need makeups to feel confident. Without it , they will feel naked and too plain looking or flawed.
Each of us are beautiful inside and out and when there is love, everything is very beautiful, for love is blind!
True happiness is achieved not by putting on makeups but by the acceptance of others.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/2484454/Guys-think-grins-are-smiles-better.html
http://www.helium.com/items/859970-are-women-more-attractive-without-makeup-on
http://www.helium.com/items/1316840-makeup-or-no-makeup
Monday, June 15, 2009
Girl from convent school embarks into sleazy life of vice .
She comes from a strict,loving and respectable middle class family and the future looks bright for her.Her father is a merchant navy officer and her mother a teacher.
Her parents had high hopes for her but life was not interesting and exciting enough for her .She craved for the attention and the sex.
The bright lights from the other side of midnight attracted her and swallowed her up and she became a rebel.She started working in a sordid Belgian peepshow and later sold her body for £700-a-night as a hooker. It is so easy .
Sometimes we wonder why good, smart and pretty girls who have everything in life choose that path that leads to hell. It is the love for money and what money can do for them.
Some do it for the money but others do it because they need to constantly seek reassurance of their sexualities or feel the power and control of their sex over the men. There will always be a demand for her type of sexual services because men with plenty of money tend to stray.Those men like varieties.
It seems so easy to be tempted by the cash and the luxury lifestyle.They do not need to have a high IQ ,for their beautiful bodies are all that is required. The more beautiful they are, the more they can command a higher price.
Once they are inside,it is difficult for them to escape.The devil will have a strangle hold over them until they are exploited and squeezed off all their life force.
It is only when they are old and no more attractive that they will be spit out from that sleazy world and new ones to replace those who have worn out and jaded.
The life of a hooker is no bed of roses. They run the risk of death and diseases. It is a lawless world and when you are in a hotel room with a man, you do not know if it will be your last job ,for anything can happen to her in that enclosed space.
Your next client could be someone you know or related and your game will be up .Most of the clients would be disgusting middle age and old men .For the sake of money , they are willing to do anything for it.
In the end, they will have to pay the final price and all those money will not guarantee them a comfortable life.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/358718/I-went-from-convent-girl-to-hooker-The-Girlfriend-Experience-by-Rebecca-Dakin.html
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Moving in with a man makes a woman fat
According to a new study,moving in with the boyfriend is bad for a woman's waistline .Women tend to eat more foods that are higher in sugar and fat, and to exercise less, after moving in with a male counterpart.Women burn less calories than a man and if you eat like him , you will pile on the pounds.
That is the drawback of staying together but if they are happy , does it really matter.
I have seen the men getting fatter after they are married for sometime or when they stay with their partners.The man's health will improve because she will either cook his favourite food or eat more heartily .
When you are happy , your appetite will be good and you tend to consume more. Now that they have found each other , the women do not have to go on a diet any more. Be happy and enjoy life to the fullest!
Since there are two people now , it is easier to order the food and sometimes the surplus is not thrown away , which means that someone will have to store those foods .It would be a waste to throw them away.
Your diets will also change as the two of you do not share the same diets.When you cohabit together , you will share your diets together. Where previously you would not eat those foods because they come in a bigger portion and now you can eat a smaller portion or share with him.
What happens when your waistline grows ?
Another new study says that skipping a meal makes guys more attracted to fat women !I wonder if you really can accept this piece of research? I am the very skeptical kind .
If you believe this hypothesis or B/S, you could starve him a bit and he would be be attracted to your plumber figure . I think he is not attracted to the plumber women but to her food. His brain is in his stomach !....LOL!
Being fat can be like a curse especially for a woman. She will have a low self esteem and she will project it out unto him. If she can still feels his love, she would be a jolly good wife and happy go lucky .
If you don't want your waist line to grow, love him but don't love his diet.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://english.pravda.ru/news/science/07-04-2006/78944-diets-0
http://mensnewsdaily.com/2006/07/28/study-skipping-a-meal-makes-guys-more-attracted-to-fat-women/
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21101772/
Saturday, June 13, 2009
Do girls prefer circumsized or uncircumsized men?
It is no big deal to some girls whether you are cut or uncut. There will be some who won't even notice the difference.Most do not look down there unless they have oral sex. Some may like it cut while others may want it uncut.There are advantages and disadvantages .
In the US, most girls would prefer a circumsized one because they are familiar to it.They have been brought up in that culture as most males are circumsized at birth.
I was under the impression that a circumcised penis would pleasure the women more because of their desensitization and would last longer.
When it comes to performance, which is better ?
Each will claim that theirs is the best but a New Zealand study found that reduced female arousal and fewer female orgasms may be linked to women having sex with circumcised male partners.
Those women reported about twice as likely to experience orgasm if their male partner had a foreskin.Presence of the movable foreskin makes a difference in foreplay, being more arousing to the female. Oops! That is news to me!
From an aesthetic point of view,a circumsized penis would look more clean,exciting,appealing,inviting and sexy to some .But what good is beauty alone if it does not know how to pleasure the opposite sex. There is a purpose for the fore skin to be present .You can read more from this site.
Women tend to fall in love first and when there is love , everything is beautiful.Whether you are cut or cut , it may not be a big deal.But for some , that extra bit of loose skin may give them some extra satisfaction.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.healthcentral.com/drdean/408/60750.html#continue
Thursday, June 11, 2009
I can’t help who I fall in love with.”
A mother looking after her six kids by herself can be a very hard,tough and unrewarding job.Her six children were fathered by four men and now she has abandoned ship and went for her son's best pal who is only 18.She has turned into a cougar.( A middle age woman who falls in love with a man half her age or could be her son's age.)
What made her to ditched her six kids for her son's best pal ?
Debbie Mallinson, 36, fled her home and moved in with toyboy Adam Caban in Falmouth, Cornwall.
The two eldest son went and lived with their relatives while the other four were put into foster care.
She left in a dramatic way by climbing out of the window and sprinting down into a waiting taxi. Was she in any danger that she has to escape in this fashion?
She left after a blazing row with her eldest son. She could have left to teach him a lesson. In the East, mothers are very strict and the children even if physically stronger than the mother would not dare to lay a hand on her.The children would obey the mother most of the time.The children may argue with their mothers but they would not be so bold as to strike their mothers.
Apparently she could not cope with the workload as she phoned the social services.
It is not easy being a single parent. We cannot judge her because she did not get any support from her ex's.
Now , she is free to do whatever she wants but I think she may have regrets . She told social services she wants the kids back eventually and wants to bring them up with her new boyfriend. I don't know if this union will last. Since she already went through with four guys,she will most probably break another record .
Probably when her new boyfriend gets a job and be able to support those kids. It will be a very big burden for such a young man who will have to give up his freedom .An 18 year's old kid may not have the maturity or experience in holding responsibilities in a marriage and he may even have to be taken care off by his parents.
If those four guys cannot last, what are this new lover's chances? He will not be able to take care of her and will have to depend on her .Perhaps ,it is just temporary insanity after all and things will go back to normal again.
There are some women who can give up their children because of their careers or ambitions. There are others who cannot carry on the burden of looking so many kids and simply give up by running away .
It sounds crazy to me but when one is under tremendous pressures and stress, one can just run away from all those difficulties.It is lucky for her to live in that country , there is the social services who will look after her kids by arranging for foster homes.
This is like a comedy and I don't know whether to laugh or to cry for that poor lady.I hope good sense will prevail in the end and that she will come to her senses before those kids reject her.
We cannot stop anyone from falling in love with us but we can control ourselves from falling in love with others.If we cannot help falling in love with anyone,then we will be like some insane person..LOL!
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/2473496/Mum-of-six-dumps-kids-for-sons-pal-18.html
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Women are perplexed why men act the way they do ?
In this new age of sexual freedom, the notion of sexual equality have different meanings to both men and women. Many women are painfully unaware that man's sexuality is different from woman.
They grow up thinking that men should think the same way as they do . This is a grave mistake and the sooner they realize the differences, the better they will understand the men.
Men can compartmentalize sex from love and they can have sex devoid of love. They can have sex with anything without any feelings or emotions.
It is like an animal urge which they just do it for the excitements and the release of their sexual tensions due to the build up of those male hormones, testosterone.Those hormones cause them to think of sex every few minutes.
Women think of love,romance, relationships and emotional commitments as more important than sex while the men think of sex first even if they do not declare it openly.
For the men , sex is divorced from relationships and feelings.All their actions point to one direction . How soon will he get to sleep with her? Some men need sex to sustain the relationship or they will drift away. Some women would offer sex in exchange for their love and attentions . Those men often may have a variety of partners or they love to screw around with others. Why would they think of commitment to marriage when they can enjoy now?
In the past, a man needs to marry in order to have sex. Premarital sex was a sin . Today , many women are engaged in premarital and extra marital sex. Sex is easily available and the men have no inclinations to get married and shoulder the responsibilities of a married life. They can have the cake and eat it.
In the end , she sells herself short and they are separated because she is not satisfied by the non commitment of those men.The men are drinking free milk without having to pay for it.
She wants sex to be a part of the relationship but he wants sex just for the enjoyment alone without those accompaniments like affections ,cuddling, caring and verbal intimacies.
She cannot comprehends the man's sexual drives and why they do not need the same thing as women do in order to enjoy a sexual relationship.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://books.google.com/books?id=BfmuYfz57-8C&pg=PA98&lpg=PA98&dq=Men+do+not+marry+women+like+these&source=bl&ots=rS-ta1N0cd&sig=UQe8OK1B3A6u3Pq77aHupU7LhMg&hl=en&ei=L9wnSvTUC8yAkQXR3fjoDQ&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=2#PPA11,M1
Friday, June 5, 2009
Women leaving men for other women ?
A lot of women may not have those feelings nor want to talk about it.It could be due to their social and religious upbringings and the desires being suppressed or branded as sinful and against the order of nature.
In recent times, we have read about those famous female stars who openly flaunt their associations with their same sex .This new culture could be gaining popularity as those stars are the vanguard of this movement and their followers would probably ape them.What they are doing would give them their approvals and legitimacy about this kind of relationships.
Sex and the City's Cynthia Nixon left a boyfriend after a decade and a half and started dating a woman and openly talking about it.Actress Lindsay Lohan and DJ Samantha Ronson were photographed together often and did not deny the news reports about their relationship.
This alternative relationships is on the rise and gaining acceptance. There are at present five states in the USA which have legalize the same sex marriage concept and more states may follow soon. Other states do recognize such a marriage even though they have not legalize it.
The taboo is lifted and the door is now open for more women to seek their own kind.This new sexual orientation is coming out of the closet.After being with men for a long time , some of these women find women are more appealing and understanding .They seek an emotional relationship and the other women is more able to fulfill that role.
Are you a gay ?
That is not an easy question to answer. It may take years before you really can come to understand about your sexuality and when you discover the truth it will change your world.
When you finally know who you are and insisted on living to your new ways, you will find the peace and freedom in your heart but it will hurt your children and husband.
It is they who must adept to your new personality and not the other way round.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/04/23/o.women.leave.menfor.women/
http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahshow/20090306-tows-women-leaving-men?cnn=yes
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