You cannot imagine anyone living in that squalid,insanitary and filthy surroundings. It is even worst than a rat nest .The house was knee deep in rubbish and filth and the children were dirty and unkempt.I don't know how the parents can keep their three little children in such a 'hellish' hole !
Go and see for yourself those grim pictures and you will have great revulsion at the squalid, filthy and inhuman living conditions.
The youngsters, aged one, three and four, were kept inside day and night by their cruel parents and forced to play among the filth and rubbish piled high in every room.
The stench was unbearable and the house was littered with rotting food and human excrement. They even covered every windows and kept the house dark from praying eyes.Everything sucks in that house.
Why do they keep all those rubbish in the house?
I don't know their real reasons. Maybe it is because of their 'Bin' laws in their country and they do not want to pay or unable to pay for the disposal of all those rubbish.
Don't they have any common sense and knowledge that an unhealthy surrounding can breed germs and make them sick.Where is their sense of decency ? Surely there must be a way to dispose of those unwanted rubbish.
The children was rescued from that shit hole and their parents, the 26-year-old man and 25-year-old woman were jailed for three years.
What they did was totally incomprehensible?
The unemployed father suffered from anxiety and a fear of open spaces and that probably is the reason for living in that squalid conditions.
Reports from two paediatricians revealed the children showed a ‘developmental delay’ with an aversion to washing and language problems. That is the result of living in isolation and lacking the parental care and attentions.
Now that the children are placed under the state, I hope they will have a chance to grow up in a proper surrounding and given the proper due care.
Reference and thanks to :-
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1194779/Childrens-life-hell-hole-Parents-jailed-rubbish-tip-home.html
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Children forced to live in a 'hellish' rubbish dump like home.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
When is the best time to have your own family ?
After getting married, it is time to plan together for a family. It is natural to want children after you are married because that is the main reason why you got married. Others would leave it to fate or God. Whether you will marry early or late or have children is decided by your destiny.
In the present generations ,many couples are three to five months pregnant when they marry.They engaged in premarital unsafe sex and as a result they became pregnant and are forced to marry to legitimize their child.
Some of them are even in school , just barely 15 and they have to quit schooling .
As parents we teach our daughters to take extra care and not indulge in pre marital sex but to no avail.
Even though she may come from a very religious background, she may still succumbs to those dark forces.Young people are curious and with raging hormones are unpredictable.Usually ,it is the woman who should be in control and if they cannot , then we have to accept the inevitable.
For them , family hood comes upon them and they do not have a choice. For those who are able to control and plan their marriage, family hood should not come too early.They should enjoy each other and get to bond more each other.
After marriage they should enjoy the honeymoon , be free and loving towards each other without any other distractions.Building a strong foundation for their marriage .They should have at least enjoy each other for a year before starting a family . I feel that between one or two years would be most ideal.
This the time when they need to have something to make their bonding stronger.A bundle of joy being the fruits of their marriage if God is willing..
Having children in the 20's is the preferred option ,when they are in their peak condition and more able to weather the strains of parent hood. They are physically stronger and agile than in their 30's where their system has slowed down .
Comments are welcome.
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Should Parents Be Made To Pay For Their Children’s Crimes ?
Crime is on the rise in many places and most of these crimes are committed by youngsters. Many authorities are debating whether parents should be held responsible for their children’s crimes to curb the rising juvenile crimes.They are proposing to make it into a law.
Do you think this is fair to the parents ?
Logically speaking, the parents are responsible for their children's actions.It is a rule of natural justice for the parents to compensate to the injured party for things that are broken or destroyed by his children.
In small matters, this may not be a problem . The problem manifest when a life is lose or when it becomes a major crime.
Will the court send the parents to jail or made him a bankrupt to pay for his children's crimes?
Being a parent is not easy if your children becomes rebellious and a delinquent or out of control.
They have a mind of their own . If the state imposes such a law, the parents may have no choice but to treat the children harshly and may made them run away from home.
The parents could be charged for abusing their children. The parents hands are tied. If they cannot handle their wayward children, whats the point of asking them to pay for their crimes?
It is like rubbing salt into their wounds. The parents need help to control their child. The institutions should come in and help but instead is laying the blame and responsibility on the parents who are at wits end.
Out of desperation , the parents may throw the children out and disowned them or in the extreme of cases to lock and chain them in a dungeon or cellar and never to let out again?
Parents cannot do that. They cannot lock their children up or beat their children .That would be child abuse. How do you expect the parents to teach their wayward children?
As parents , you may order your children not to do this or that but can the parents be there always to enforce their wills?
It should be the children who should bear the consequences of their actions and the judge to decide in a case by case basis as to the level of compensations .
The rich parents may not have problems but the poor parents would be devastated.It will destroy their life. Is this fair?
Simply saying that parents are responsible is just placing unnecessary burdens on those parents.
It is easy to put the blame on the parents .No parents want their children to commit crimes.Parents cannot monitor their children for 24/7.
Being young, those kids may not know or realize the extend of their foolishness.Kids will be kids.
The law making parents responsible for their kids or the negligence is a failure of the state to address such an issue.It will not curb the vandalism, armed robbery , muggings , snatch thieves and rapes.
Posted by Laura
credit and thanks to
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=475869&in_page_id=1770
http://www.cbc.ca/news/yourview/2006/10/parents_should_pay_for_kids_cr.html#comments
suggested reading
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=485195&in_page_id=1770
http://newpaper.asia1.com.sg/news/story/0,4136,144284,00.html?
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