Suzie1318: romance

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Where has the romance gone ?

Remember your first thrilling and on cloud nine romance?

How you fell in love with your hunky dory ,tall, dark and handsome beau? Now that you have married and have kids and life is so boring and a drudgery .

You feel that romance is absent or has waned and you recalled those happy and sweet memories when life was so carefree and he was romancing you.You were like two happy go lucky guys without a hitch in the world.

You want to energize and spice up your love life but don't know how to go about it or are directionless ,just bobbing neither here or there and just being carried away by the ocean currents where it wants.

You crave for those close intimacies, all those sweet nothings and his attentions and affections.Those wonderful sweet , euphoric feelings or sensations of being in love.

You want to seek a fresh purpose to the meaning of your marriage life which has become so dull and drab.The fire seems to have gone out or extinguished.

Though you may not be physically as beautiful as before and he is not as handsome as he used to be , you could still have some fun and fantasies in your life.You could recharge those dormant feelings and have a blast.

If you are just in love with your partner and have no romantic love, you will sense a feelings of emptiness, for you would have missed those wonderful and fascinating romantic thoughts and feelings.

Imaginations and fantasies are what makes our life interesting and pleasurable. If you have no romantic love and still don't know if it is love,that's is even more muddled and confused.

You would have to sit by the river banks and wait till the water subsides and see the stones at the bottom of the river bed.Then you would know whether it is love or not.

Time will tell and you need to be very patient.If you don't feel it, then it is not love. How to be romantic and have those happy and sensual feelings again?

The answer is very simple and yet many don't realize it.. Just fall in love again..!

You fall out of love and you need to go back in again using another door or the same door..Maybe you got to say 'Zam Zam ala Kazam!'and the magical door of the romance world opens to you.

Go to those intimate restaurants where the ambiance is conducive to kindle romantic feelings.You could also go to those parks or beaches to picnic, just the two of you.

Make him feel exuberant, enchanted and fascinated with you again .Love will bloom a second time ,when he hold's you in his strong arms and you radiate charmingly like the most beautiful orchid or rose .

The man should not stop wooing or chasing their spouse after they have married them. For it may be the end of their chase but it is the beginning for the women....

It is like a sweet dream.Time to go and do those never ending chores . If you don't get into the driver's seat, you will be forever stuck in that timeless black hole .You need to rev up your engines and don't let life pass you by.

Perhaps you could pray to the Goggle God and asked Him to lead you back into your Heavenly kingdom.

For further readings;

http://www.canadianliving.com/relationships/love/10_simple_ways_to_put_the_romance_back_into_your_relationship.php

The Joys & The Pitfalls Of Office Romance .

The office is not just a place for work only ,it can be a fertile ground for flourishing and exciting romances or it could be a battle ground of the sexes.

It could lead you up the road to a happy and holy matrimony if handled properly or lead you down to the slippery steps of a law court on sexual harassment charges and to ruins if you handled it wrongly.

We spend most of our daily active life working and with overtime because of today’s demanding jobs and economic considerations.

The long hours and the back breaking job, coupled with the goldfish bowl environment is a ripe recipe for dangerous liaisons and secret rendezvous and where the seeds of passion and amour germinates and blooms.

It could just be the innocuous accidental hand touching , casual chit chats, e-mails to and fro ,an innocent sweet smile or look , a silent admirer or venture into the darker side of midnight ,of stolen kisses ,cheating hearts ,one night stands or rapturous sex and romantic candle light dinners.

There is no way to stop office romance because we are only human and seek love and companionship whether you are married or single.

The fine and thin red line between friendship and love can be blurred and obscured sometimes.The nature of the job and the constant presence of the opposite sex can stoke the flame of love and romance.

Some company have rules governing office romance and you should be aware of them or you could run foul of the company laws and end up in the streets.You could end up losing both your job and your love.

Beware of the pitfalls of office romance.It could be a joy to you both but will bring sadness and pain and break many other
’s hearts.

credit and thanks to

http://management.about.com/cs/people/a/OfficeRomance.htm

http://edition.cnn.com/2007/LIVING/worklife/08/29/office.romance/index.html?imw=Y&iref=mpstoryemail

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/relationship/guide.html?in_article_id=353653&in_page_id=1861

http://www.chickjunk.com/2006/12/05/quick-quide-to-office-romances/